Says it all really!

IC Name: Carnelia Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Last visit: 104 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 40

***Please note, I'm currently in a relationship so I'm not looking! If you've met me feel free to contact me or invite me to join your real-life network. I'm also happy to answer questions about the London scene, clubbing etc.***

I've always had an interest in BDSM but have only been exploring it 'for real' for the last four or five years. As you can see from my photos I go out a bit to London fetish clubs and have made a number of good friends on the scene. I often feel I have two quite distinct parts to my life, the 'vanilla' and the 'fetish' but I'm fairly open about my interests with my 'nilla friends.

I'm not interested in a 24/7 scenario, I prefer my BDSM within certain boundaries as an enjoyable facet of an equal and respectful relationship, ideally ultimately a long-term one. BDSM is really important for mutual pleasure but I think it's also important to have other interests and a well-rounded life.

I used to identify as predominantly submissive but I've recently been discovering more of my dominant side and have come to view my sexuality as quite fluid and very much inspired by the people I'm attracted to.

I have a strong interest in subtle energy work and have started exploring Tantra, Kundalini yoga and Buddhism as a way to work with this energy in all aspects of my life.

Outside of BDSM/fetish I have an active social life doing the usual things - meeting friends for dinner, drinks etc. I also really enjoy going to the theatre, dance and the odd exhibition here and there.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 4in  

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