Feet	IC Name: Call_Me_Harmony Joined: 3 Jul 2006 Last visit: 3 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Cambridge, UK Age: 51 Website: http://www.wingsof...

People change as do relationships and She is no longer my dominant but she remains my friend, my confidente and my straight girlfriend. Still having lots of fun and exploring my submissive side with a gentleman sadist/Dominant and letting my dominant sadistic aspects loose on my occasional playmate bottom. And because the universe loves me and knows exactly what I need this hardworking, young man with good attitude is in service to me as a very efficient maid.

Because it is obviously far too unclear in my profile I am not looking for a dominant or a submissive. I have all a girl could possibly need already in my life and am happy to keep it that way. New friendships are always welcome but I really do not want or need more

Call me Harmony because it is my name. I chose it for myself and it represents all I want from life.

I am flirtatious, cheeky, passionate, devoted, intelligent (though I can hide it well), surprisingly a little shy, and often a bit of a conundrum.

To be fair there are bad points too: strong willed, at times independent to the point of stubbornness, and possessing more than my fair share of pedantry and sarcasm.

A wry sense of humour, which means I find myself impelled to say the funny thing rather than the sensible thing and damn the consequences, which has gotten me into a fair amount of trouble on more than one occasion.

I am a searcher, a learner, a peacemaker, a mother, a teacher a carer, an artist a poet, all of these things I am but none is me. I am the sum of the parts and then that something extra that is spirit.

I play all ends of the D/s M/S dynamics and that suits me just fine. My position on the D/s M/S spectrum is fluid, and I like it that way. I guess in the end I'm just Harmony and that is enough for me.

I am polyamorous and there are in my life several established relationships (for want of a better term) of one kind or another. Each of these people is important to me in different ways and I care for them all.

At this point I find myself craving pain, wanting to push the boundaries, to find my limits by smashing through them. And yet at the same time the more I let the masochist out to play the more the sadist pushes through. I guess I just enjoy being contrary.

Though I will vehemently deny being a submissive. It is not a defining aspect of my personality. However I can no longer deny to myself that if not 'a submissive' I am his submissive. Thank you Sir Though I don't do it very often I am proud to call you Master.

A profile can only ever give the briefest taster. If you really want to know more about me read my other website Journey at http://www.journey.wingsofspirit.co.uk it will tell you everything you could want to know and possibly more.

I like to get out and about and can be glimpsed occasionally at several events or munches. I also maintain a profile Here

Let me be clear I see the profile as a way to say a little about myself, a taste of who I am. I do not wish to be seen as a checkbox of BDSM activities. Therefore I have removed the interests from my profile so that they do not occupy a place at the top, implying an importance which in my opinion they do not deserve.

However they do have some relevance, so if you're interested read on.

This is a list of things that interest me, float my boat or intrigue me, not a shopping list. Bottoming . Topping . ds . sm . Dominating . Submitting, but only to the right person blindfolds . bondage . breathplay (breathing is seriously over-rated) . caning . ds . electricity . exhibitionism feet . fisting . flogging . gloves. hair . humiliation . knives, knives and more knives, or any other sharpies . leather needles . pony play (though due to chronic pain syndrome I can no longer indulge any more) prison scenarios or other roleplaying . shackles and chains or other forms of restraint rope (the sensual look and feel of rope moving across skin) . single tails . boots . spanking . uniforms

Last updated 14 Match 2012

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: purpleish   Height: 5ft 9in   Weight: 18st   BMI: 36.9  

This profile was last updated on 19 Mar 12, 10:13 AM.

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