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Profile:	Call_Me_Harmony
Created on:	3 Jul 2006
Last visit:	3 hours ago
Country:	UK
Location:	Leicester
Sex/gender:	Female
Homepage:	http://www.wingsof...
Age:	49
Hair colour:	purpleish
Eye colour:	blue
Weight:	19st 10lb
Height:	5ft 9in
BMI:	40.4

Hers, my playmate bottom, and having lots of fun with a gentleman sadist/Dominant.

Because it is obviously far too unclear in my profile I am not looking for a dominant or a submissive. I have all a girl could possibly need already in my life and am happy to keep it that way. New friendships are always welcome but I really do not want or need more..

Call me Harmony because it is my name. I chose it for myself and it represents all I want from life.

I am flirtatious, cheeky, passionate, devoted, intelligent (though I can hide it well), surprisingly a little shy, and often a bit of a conundrum.

To be fair there are bad points too: strong willed, at times independent to the point of stubbornness, and possessing more than my fair share of pedantry and sarcasm.

A wry sense of humour, which means I find myself impelled to say the funny thing rather than the sensible thing and damn the consequences, which has gotten me into a fair amount of trouble on more than one occasion.

I am a searcher, a learner, a peacemaker, a mother, a teacher a carer, an artist a poet, all of these things I am but none is me. I am the sum of the parts and then that something extra that is spirit.

I play both ends of the D/s dynamic and that suits me just fine. My position on the D/s spectrum is fluid, and I like it that way. I guess in the end I'm just Harmony and that is enough for me.

I am polyamorous and there are in my life several established relationships (for want of a better term) of one kind or another. Each of these people is important to me in different ways and I care for them all.

At this point I find myself craving pain, wanting to push the boundaries, to find my limits by smashing through them. And yet at the same time the more I let the masochist out to play the more the sadist pushes through. I guess I just enjoy being contrary.

Though I will vehemently deny being a submissive. It is not a defining aspect of my personality. However I can no longer deny to myself that I am her girl and his submissive. Thank you Sir

A profile can only ever give the briefest taster. If you really want to know more about me read my other website Journey at http://www.journey.wingsofspirit.co.uk it will tell you everything you could want to know and possibly more.

I can generally be found at Treason where I work as door person and relief Dungeon Monitor. I can also be found, pretty regularly, at Oblivion.

Let me be clear I see the profile as a way to say a little about myself, a taste of who I am. I do not wish to be seen as a checkbox of BDSM activities. Therefore I have removed the interests from my profile so that they do not occupy a place at the top, implying an importance which in my opinion they do not deserve.

However they do have some relevance, so if you're interested read on.

This is a list of things that interest me, float my boat or intrigue me, not a shopping list. Bottoming . Topping . ds . sm . Dominating . Submitting, but only to the right person blindfolds . bondage . breathplay (breathing is seriously over-rated) . caning . ds . electricity . exhibitionism feet . fisting . flogging . gloves. hair . humiliation . knives, knives and more knives, or any other sharpies . leather needles . pony play (though due to chronic pain syndrome I can no longer indulge any more) prison scenarios or other roleplaying . shackles and chains or other forms of restraint rope (the sensual look and feel of rope moving across skin) . single tails . boots . spanking . uniforms

Last updated 06 May 2010

This profile was last updated on 6 May 10, 1:31 PM

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