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IC Name: CBT_on_rye Joined: 4 Jan 2009 Last visit: 3 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: East Ham, UK Age: 49 Website: https://fetlife.co...

Hello. I am an odd sort of switch (yes they are pesky at the best of times, I am worse). When I am single I can imagine my next relationship being as a top or bottom, and whilst looking I can enjoy casual play either way. When I find someone who feels right I settle into the role that develops with that person and lose interest in alternatives. We may be monogamous or open/poly, but I will only be playing in that role. Switches get accused of wanting to have their cake and eat it, my problem is that I am very picky who I play with whilst being a type that puts off most other switches as well! It is just the way I am wired.

As a top or bottom I enjoy pushing limits and playing with extremes in a way that is difficult to portray in a switch profile. The list of interests below covers all that could occur in either role. I am not into them all as both a top and bottom. That is the main reason why on Fetlife I have separate top and bottom profiles (both crosslinked here, Dom as website and Sub as https://fetlife.com/users/986046).

I am a reasonably attractive and athletic man with interests that include reading (scfi, fantasy, history and popular science) music, politics and exercise. I am looking for friends and playmates for fun at home, parties and clubs. Hopefully leading to a LTR with a woman I find intelligent and attractive, whose moral and cultural values compliment mine (liberal and socially concerned), and whose interests overlap with mine. She may be a 'sadistic bitch' with an evil and dirty mind, and possibly a controlling streak, or a 'masochistic slut' willing to indulge my evil, dirty mind and possible be controlled.

I hope to meet to chat at one of the London munches, clubs or LAM/LFF.

Eye colour: blue   Hair colour: brown   Height: 5ft 8in   Weight: 12st 11lb   BMI: 27.0  

This profile was last updated on 8 May 12, 12:45 AM.

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