Cracking on the downs at sunset

IC Name: BristolTop Joined: 14 Oct 2001 Last visit: 22 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Bristol, UK Age: 43

I'm an experienced Dominant - all the relationships I've had over the past dozen years or so has been a blend of D/s and vanilla aspects. I'm currently rather absorbed by this little hellcat. She might be one of the best things that's ever happened to me, but she still needs to try harder (so don't tell her I said that).

I believe that subtle thread of D/s running through a relationship can enhance and fortify an outwardly vanilla relationship. That said, micromanagement and heavy ritual outside a scene really doesn't appeal to me. I value creativity, strength of character and the ability to hold down a good argument too much. Plus I sometimes need to be told when I'm being daft. Apparently.

As far as vanilla interests go, I'm captivated by film, I devour books several at once, I adore live performances (though nowadays I'm more likely to be found at the theatre or ballet than at a gig)

I'm a big kid at heart. I love my big boys toys. They put a twinkle in my eye and a boyish grin on my face. That boyish enthusiasm tends to infuse a lot of what I do. I'm quite creative, and love to throw myself into an interesting project or three! I'm one of those "good with their hands" type of people (oi, stop sniggering at the back) and genuinely enjoy making, repairing, repurpose-ing "stuff".

I'm out and about on the scene in Bristol and Cardiff. I make it to the Bristol Munch now and again, Cardiff Munch most months, SWAMP more often than not and enjoy Wild Passions and other events when the mood takes me.

I throw whips quite a bit. I like it because it teaches you the difference between being in charge of something and being in control of it. That whip is going to do exactly what you tell it. If you overreach your abilities or are unsure of what you want it to do it'll come right back and hurt you. I try to get along to the infrequent (strictly vanilla) practices that take place up on the Bristol Downs. If you fancy a go throwing give me a shout and I'll see what I can do.

My strongest kink has to be bondage. It's a really personal thing for me, it brings out feelings of posession and ownership, a feeling of connection that brings out an ultra protective side of me. So, no. I'll not tie you up - it would be dangerous to your health when the aforementioned Hellcat eviscerates you.

So, that's a rather less than perfect description of me.

Oh, and I have more chocolate than god

Yahoo messenger:chaste_bristol   MSN ID:chaste_bristol@hotmail.com   Eye colour: Hazel   Hair colour: Brown   Height: 5ft 10in   Weight: 20st   BMI: 39.9  

This profile was last updated on 13 Nov 09, 11:53 PM.

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