IC Name: BristolSwitchBoy Joined: 14 Sep 2008 Last visit: 51 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Bristol, UK Age: 31

I'm here to talk to people, meet people, figure out the scene and make friends with people with the same/more experience than me. And yes, I will be making more of an effort to go to more munches meets and clubs. For now, here is a little bit about me - first kink, then normal.

'Kink'

I've craved something more for a long time and feel the need to go after it. Previously I've only really dipped into kinky play whilst in vanilla relationships - now I want to delve in and explore this side of me some more.

I love to be in charge, or to be taken charge of - for me it's about pushing away from the middle ground, the everyday, and being completely in-control, or completely helpless.

I'm not massively into the pain thing (though not adverse to playful slapping and whipping); it's mainly humiliation and mind-play that gets me off. I didn't used to think that the 24/7 lifestyle appealed to me, but maybe that is changing. In any case, I do think that for me a healthy does of kink is essential. I'm all for corruption and being taught a new thing or two, beyond what I've listed at the bottom of this text.

Things I particularly like: the rich pungent smell of latex, and the feel of tight latex clothes. I love strap-on play.

I'm looking for someone I can explore the fantasies/kinks listed above and below with, and at the same time explore her kinks/fantasies too, whatever they may be. In terms of compatibility, the list below provides an idea of my degree of kink. Ideally I'm looking for a relationship based on mutual trust where we can explore each others dominant and submissive sides. I really can't say I fit into either category 100% - basically I'm just greedy and equally love the idea of the lady I trust having control/power over me, and likewise at other times swapping that control/power balance.

'Normal'

I enjoy running, cinema, drinks in pubs with friends, exploring the city and local area. Science in general rocks my world - I'm a geek complete with a PhD. I bitch about politics a lot, and seem to upset people that aren't liberals (in a progressive social sense). Mostly this translates as ranting about the Daily Mail and its fuckwit writers. I love cooking, and generally cook Lebanese/North African/Spanish style food (all vegetarian style). When I get time off, travelling to various places and seeing the sites (recently Krakow, Barcelona, Cordoba, Granada and Iceland). That said I'm hardly a travel-head, I just like to get away once in a while.

Yahoo messenger:BristolSwitchBoy   Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Black   Height: 6ft   Weight: 12st 5lb   BMI: 23.3  

This profile was last updated on 14 Nov 09, 10:43 PM.

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