Straddling the line between arty and creepy

IC Name: Bleaklow Joined: 31 Jan 2006 Last visit: 4 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: S. Yorks, UK Age: 26 Website: https://fetlife.co...

I'm not really 'involved' in the kink community either online nor 'IRL'. I don't know why; perhaps it doesn't truly appeal to me to found a social life on kink when I'm not presently engaged in such activities; as I already lead a very active social life. I'm aware that single-males are oft viewed in a less-than-favourable light. Oh well. I mostly visit to just read the groups/blogs, as as well as the stuff I'm personally interested in, they're useful for gleaning information that I can utilise for aspects of the convoluted transgressive novel I'm writing. I have contacts on FL, just to point out to those who refuse to acknowledge the existence of anyone without kink-friends: https://fetlife.com/users/79504

I'm 25. I'm 5'6 / 5'7, slim, and physically fit. I have long wavy browny hair. I look younger than I am, and also kinda androgynous, seemingly. I try not to take myself too seriously as, quite frankly, life's too short for being uptight. Submissiveness is an orientation, not a reflection of worth. Likewise, simply being a dominant doesn't necessarily denote that a person is worth submitting to or respecting. Subs and Doms are incomplete without the other, and thus a cycle of respect must be in place. I like interesting and intense experiences, physically and emotionally. Let's know each other and explore everything.

I'm a hell of a lot more subby than dommy, but still fall into 'switch' territory, and certainly have a healthy sadistic/masochistic vein. More comfortable in engaging in activity with either switch types or dom types, than pure sub types. Feel free to memo me to ask anything you'd like. Sub males - please note that I'm not really at all interested in topping you. I'm bi (err slightly more towards the straight side of things than the gay, and I'm mostly 'out' IRL), but I'm also pretty fussy, and - beyond shallow physicalities - I find few people truly attractive. I'm very much sapiosexual. I dunno. All things can change dependent upon situation. I'd like to think I'm open-minded, and would consider most things at least once. Limits are of course in effect, but they're certainly not set, nor are they low. I'm willing to try most things, literally; within reason (ie. no permanent damage). I'm, again, disinclined to name kinks as I feel it's something to disclose only to those really concerned, so I'll just state that my thoughts and likes run to dark extremes; but I also consider myself to be rather grounded in reality of life and people, and feel that I'm not a delusional fantasist seeking a life that cannot exist. Over the years, my outlook on relationships has shifted somewhat, and with it so have my views on gender/orientation boundaries and monogamy/polyamory. I'm really very open to experience, and I feel that nothing (within reason) should be dismissed without sampling.

Let's talk. That's more interesting than me talking to myself in this box.

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"Whatever is fitted in any sort to excite the ideas of pain, and danger, that is to say, whatever is in any sort terrible, or is conversant about terrible objects, or operates in a manner analogous to terror, is a source of the sublime, that is, it is productive of the strongest emotions which the mind is capable of feeling. I say the strongest emotion because I am satisfied the ideas of pain are much more powerful than those which enter on the part of pleasure. Without all doubt, the torments which we may be made to suffer, are much greater in their effect on the body and mind, than any pleasure which the most learned voluptuary could suggest, or than the liveliest imagination and the most sound and exquisitely sensible body could enjoy" - Edmund Burke, Of The Sublime, 1757

"Our most delicious moral sensations come of the imagination. By allowing this imagination to stray, by according it the freedom to overstep those ultimate boundaries religion, decency, humaneness, virtue, in a word, all our pretended obligations would like to prescribe to it, is it not possible that the imagination's extravagances would be prodigious? Well, is it not by reason of the immensity of these extravagances that the imagination will be the more inflamed? If that is so, the more we wish to be agitated, the more we desire to be moved violently, the more we must give reign to our imagination; we must bend it toward the inconceivable; our enjoyment will thereby be increased, made better for the track the intellect follows, and...." - [Eugine], Marquis de Sade - Philosophy in the Bedroom, 1795

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So as to not come across as completely one-dimensional as the above section of the profile would do if viewed alone, here are a few random interests in my vanilla life. I like dense prose, swathes of great music, and arty films.

Art, Avant-Garde, Badminton, Bass guitar, Board games, Camping, Charity shops, Classical, Coffee, Comedy, Cycling, Environment, Experience, Films, Folk, Gigs, Goth, Hiking, Hippie, History, Internets, Jazz , Knowledge, Left-wing, Long hair, Metal, MSc, Music, Nature, Noise, Outdoors, Peak District, Philosophy, Psychedelic, Psychogeography, Psychology, Radio 3, Reading, Real-ale, Sarcasm, Surrealism, Swimming, Tea, Urbex, Whisky, Words, Writing

Music: Avant-garde, experimental, jazz, fusion, classical, opera, progressive, extreme metal (black/death), folk, punk, noise, drone, doom, EBM, IDM, ambient, psychedelic, industrial, post-rock, etc.

Film: Almodóvar, Ghibli, Charlie Kaufman, Gilliam, Bunuel, Svankmajer, and Tarkovsky.

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