Sorry folks, but I really DO look like this!

IC Name: BigOldHector Joined: 26 Oct 2001 Last visit: 17 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Derby, UK Age: 58

Well, I would describe myself as a big gentle, soft-hearted kinda guy, who is unambiguously submissive to women (or at least the right woman), but not really at all into the stereotype of BDSM. I'm much more into D/s as a relationship based on worship, service & submission in a real sense than "ticking all the boxes" and conforming to what ever the scene expects.

Maybe its my romantic streak, but to me its the pure beauty and joy of putting a lady on a pedestal to be worshipped and obeyed in an elevated position of power and majesty, rather than the peripheral "kinks" that become associated with that concept (not that I can't be kinky, but it isn't the be-all and end-all), that constitutes the real appeal of female domination. After all, being dominant or submissive is about what you are and what you feel, not what you wear or what "scenes" you do - and I have never lost sight of that.

I am not actively seeking anything or anyone currently, and it will probably be a very long time before I am in any place to want to do so (And please don't anybody ask to know any more than that. Thats for me to know, for someone very precious to me who I still and always will dearly love and care about to hopefully understand over time - and absolutely none of anybody elses business whatsofuckingever!). But one can never have too many friends, so I'm sticking around - plus I wouldn't want to miss the opportunity for a good rant on the boards now and then!

a.k.a. "The Artist Formerly Known as Plinth_for_her_Feet" (but I won't be tattooing "slave" all over me fizzog, I'm not that much of an utter dick!)

Eye colour: brown   Hair colour: gone   Height: 6ft  

This profile was last updated on 7 Feb 11, 7:44 PM.

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