Blackberry

IC Name: BerryBlack Joined: 18 Nov 2007 Last visit: 13 days ago Sex/gender: Female Location: N (North London), UK Age: 31 Website: http://fetlife.com...

PLEASE DO NOT MEMO ME OR SEND A NETWORK REQUEST IF YOU HAVE A PHOTO OF YOUR BITS ON SHOW. I don't want to see anything like that. It's sad that it's necessary to put this up here, but I'm old-fashioned about some things.

Please send me a message so we can get to know each other before sending me a network request if we've never met. If you find me interesting, please read the whole of my profile, especially the end. It is often obvious when people haven't.

I don't like to have a personal photo on here so the blackberry will have to do.

Sensual and sensitive, my shyness may be misinterpreted. I am a genie in a bottle and, as the song says, “you gotta rub me the right way”.

I have a kind heart and a lot of love to give, and I hope to find a young man who knows himself and what he wants out of life. I like to top, but am not dominant all the time and don't believe in female supremacy or men as worthless worms.

When I love a man, especially a submissive one, I revere him and enjoy giving him lots of attention. If I'm in a relationship with him, I expect him to show that he loves me just as much, in any way he likes rather than only serving me or my feet. I'm not looking for casual play, but very occasionally I click with someone enough.

Occasionally I enjoy switching, but when I do, I don't submit. I find it relaxing (I don't take anything like as hard as I might give) and helpful to understand how my submissive playmate feels.

I enjoy having a man at my feet, over my lap and in my arms. I like cuddling, spanking, bondage and stroking my boy's face, hair and everywhere else. I'm open to more, but not to everything and I don't like attempts at persuasion.

I love kittyplay, playful rebellion and costumes. I can be shy so I need a man who isn't passive, but will play with me rather than leave me to take the lead in everything.

I adore cats, dislike smoking and drink very rarely – this is your hint that there will always be a cat in my life, but, please, no smoke!

I love dancing, singing, gaming, reading, writing, drawing, theatre, cinema, music, computers, languages, travelling, and learning everything possible about the world and how it works.

Meeting in person is the only way to gauge chemistry and attraction so I prefer to meet sooner rather than later.

I am not looking for a sub, as such, but a subby boyfriend. I tend to meet people I like in person rather than on here, but, just in case, I need to be explicit about what I don't like when I'm approached online.

I want to be approached in a way that clearly shows I am a person first. Kink can come later. Possibly much later. I would like more than just, “Hi, how are you?” but that is much more what I'm looking for than these common ways messages are written:

Please don't...

- Call me miss, mistress or anything of the sort. - Discuss anything kinky at all such as wanting to serve me, what kinks you're into, what you like to do or that you have somewhere to play. - Tell me details such as your age or looks. - Write very little or in text speak – full sentences, please. - Have nothing on your own profile but a list of kinks, compliments on loads of other women's photos or photos of parts of yourself that you would usually keep covered.

As for who I'm looking for…

I don't mean to be shallow with this, but there's no point denying the truth. I prefer men around my age, so anywhere from early 20s to about 36. I like slimmer men and those who aren't all that tall (5'6" and up is great).

I love spanking so if you don't, I will gladly introduce you to it gently and hope that you'll find a taste for it. Someone who hates spanking is probably not for me. I prefer a sub to a switch as I might occasionally switch, but I don't sub.

I love intelligence, enthusiasm for things like your hobbies, your job or your pet, an open mind, interest in trying new things of all sorts, and the desire to talk and be together. I need a man who has the time to be my partner.

I like men who don't take being a sub too seriously and don't insist on being good for me. I find that boring. I like men to play around and be sparky. I don't mind shameless brattiness as long as the behaviour isn't so loud or outrageous that it bothers anyone else.

Limits to my kinky interests include the usual scat, kids and animals, but also humiliation, fear, blood, watersports, cutting, needles and possibly more that I can't think of right now. Breathplay and queening, for example, hold no interest for me.

This profile was last updated on 2 Nov 11, 6:40 AM.

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