Owch	IC Name: BeautifullyMean Joined: 21 Apr 2011 Last visit: 2 days ago Sex/gender: Male Location: Leicestershire, UK Age: 20

WARNING: THIS IS NOW OUT OF DATE.. (though not incorrect)

*** Update: I am Dyslexic, that means my spelling and grammar can be terrible, please bear with me in my profile, i have recently recieved personal attacks due to spellings and do not wish it to happen again, thanks ***

So new profile time, im going to try and describe all different sides to me, but that may be difficult, like many of us here i have a number of faces, each liking different things. so lets start of with:

Basics:

• im 20 years of age, young and excitable, but id consider myself mentaly mature and able to hold a conversation with anyone no matter the age
• I am male (think it says so up above, but there we go)
• i enjoy socialising and having good intelligent company, Note: i would love to find some Kinksters i get along with to just be friends with in my local area, people i can invite to dinner and such and kink can be on the conversation list :D
• I play guitar, very badly.. mostly because i hardly practice
• I own a broken Xbox360
• I have a love for sugar that i think rivals my dentists entire capability to protect me, note to others, my teeth are in good shape, this is a joke because i used to not look after them, then i had a root filling, = pain, and not the good kind, now theyre always nice and shiny clean :D even if i do eat lots of sweets
• my diet sucks! and that is not a reference to anything sexual. i just eat really bad, carbs carbs carbs
• if there is music, i will be dancing to it! FACT

ok onto the kinky stuff:

My submissive tendencies

im putting this first because i feel im more submissive than i am dominant, yes im a switch, though i rarely switch with the same person, except in relaionships. so lets talk submissiveness:

• I am not a Masochist or however you spell it (i am dyslexic, give me a break) however i do enjoy corpral punishment and pain in sessions, a) because i dont like it, so it works well as a punishment and b) sort of in a non sexual way, almost like an extreeme sport, tring to extract the adrenaline and excitement from it. dont get me wrong it hurts like fu*k and i scream and hate it, but there is a certain proudness from accomplishing it, ask me if you want to know more, im not good at explaining
• I enjoy humiliation and psycological based BDSM quite alot, weather that comes in the form of being tied in an exposing position, or being exibeted for others to see/inspect or being made to server others as a maid, and many more (see interests at the side of the page :D) i like the idea of being made into something i usually am not (a confident outgoing self willed thrill seeker haha) if that tickles your fancy were bound to get on.
• I am fairly new to ACTUAL bdsm, as in playing in real life, im looking forward to going to some events local to me to meet others and get more experience, but there are still lots of things i have not tried or explored.
• so i feel i should mention it here, crossdressing, yes i am a bit of a crossdresser, if your interested in why, then memo me but ill just explain a little first. I am not only a crossdresser, i do enjoy it and can enjoy it as part of scenes, but i enjoy subbing as a male just as much and do do so often, so if your not into it thats fine by me, there are always interests one person has another is sure not to have, if this is one of them then cool, im not the sort of guy who will want to always be whipped in a dress (wheres the fun in that, bit of variety at least.. haha)
• So kind of in opposite on the simmilar topic of above, i do like to crossdress and one of the things i enjoy is serving as a maid, cleaning, serving at parties (inc being punished if need be) so if you require a maid or are interested in dont hesitate to get in contact i will endeavour to always try and reply even if its to say "really really busy, memo me in a week :D" or something like that, i dont like leaving people out of the loop, simmilally if your intersted in playing with me either as Male or crossdressed, do also get in contact.
• In bdsm there are two kinds of things i like about it, sexual and non sexual, obviously lots of parts of it are sexual and always will be, but i enjoy the experience as well, and even though i consider myself straight, it allows me to enjoy sessions with male dom's as well, i just thought this is a nice peice of insight into how i see it all.
• Bondage, i have recently found a love for bondage.. i realised it turned me on alot more than erotic literiture or pictures of it ever did, so, im very interested in exploring and explanding my experiences with it, be it rope bondage, caging, mummification (one id particulally like to try as i have not at all tried it), or simple handcuffs, also if you have any interesting thoughts on bondage i may be interested in that i havent heard of id love to hear about them,
• another thing im keen to try is submitting not just on my own but as part of a group or few subs, i think this gives a lot of possible things that can be done that cannot otherwise: i like the idea of games and contests, for some reason and there are so many delicous possibilities

ok, so thats most of the subbie stuff, i think. i can always add more as i think of it,

My Dominant tendencies

so ill start of by saying this openly, when i think of bdsm the first thing i think of is not being a dom, its usually with me in the sub position, and fantasising about dominating never really did it for me, however i do know that i have quite enjoyed dominating girls i have had relationships with, and from this has stemmed a new part of my kink.

• i have so far only ever dominated girls who i have been in relationships with, it is likely that unless i try otherwise this is all i ever will do, so at some point im going to go along to an event or something and find a friendly older dom/domme to show me the ropes of putting poor subs through their paces
• what is it i get out of it? well at first i thought nothing, so why be interested. and i can cirtainly say that the actualy act of dominating people.. so far has not turned me on. what has turned me on is having the girl i love and care for tied up and looking damn sexy, but i digress. i also now get something else, an inalectual thrill from it, from trying to get inside their mind and understand what it is they are thinking to predict it and then subsequently out 'play' them at the psycological game, gives me a lovely thrill, and i especially enjoy coming up with delisiously evil tasks/predicaments/etc that challenge my brain to create, (i am quite creative you see :P)
• I have yet though to properly dominate in the full BDSM sence of the word, anyone. So i do need to explore i may find new love for something i had not previously thought, i may find sadistic tendencies i can tap into as a dominant, or i may just enjoy the difference of being on the other side of the ropes/cane/etc.
• having subbed more and being more of a sub than a dominant i would say it gives me a good insight into what it is like to be in the sub position, and i would hope that would help me become a better dominant
• i have never dominated a man, but i think it may be something which in a few years and with some more experience i may try, definately if just to say i have tried it, but also because men and women are so very different and i do love variety in my life.

okay that is most of my dominant stuff unless i think of more at a later date,

What i want

what i want from IC and my add:

• i am looking to meet people to play with to expand my experiences and horizons more
• i want to find people i can socialise with within the 'scene' to learn off and be friends with
• i would also be looking for a relationship should someone i was attracted to in more than a BDSM sence (vanilla aspects as well) happen to cross my path, in fact if i could find a BDSM friendly relationship id be over the moon!!!
• most of all, fun and experiences,

so do get in contact, id love to hear from everyone and anyone who feels they would get along with me or enjoy playing we me or meeting up with me at an event or party (hopefully making my first entrance into the scene at an event soon) i will always try and get back in contact, well.. assuming you put more effort into your memo than just 'hi want to play A/S/L' in a memo.. which im sure as intelligent members of the community you will.

thanks for reading if you have made it this far,

Beautifullymean

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