12 Apr 2012

IC Name: Bambi_x Joined: 17 Apr 2010 Last visit: 23 hours ago Sex/gender: Female Location: London, UK Age: 24

"It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are." - e. e. cummings

About me:

Originally from Scotland, I've been 'on the scene' in London for about a year now, although I've been into BDSM in private for much longer than that. I'm still learning and growing and every day I live out even more perverted scenarios than the day before..

I'm the kind of person who cries at the google chrome ad (you know, the one where the dad emails his newborn daughter every day?) but laughs at the most inappropriate moments. I have a love for fashion, film, poetry (if you can talk to me about Neruda or cummings then we'll be fine) and music that makes my heart skip a beat. I'm extremely open-minded with a dry, un-pc sense of humour and I try not to take myself, or my kink, too seriously.

I have an amazing boyfriend and I'm not looking to develop anything with anyone else at the moment. Also, I'm not interested in chatting to people online. However, you can normally find me out and about at various events in London - feel free to come and say hi.

Lastly, I'm rubbish at replying to emails, phone calls and text messages in a timely fashion and I absolutely fail at being on time, so if you message me and I don't reply, don't take it personally.

About me (The Kinky Stuff):

Things are pretty fluid - but I suppose I'm what you'd call one of those dirty Switches.. although I lean very heavily to the top these days.

My interests are varied and other parties have a huge influence on what I enjoy doing at any given time - although if it's filthy, depraved and just a little bit wrong - chances are I'm probably into it.

As a dom/top the phrase 'frequently kind and suddenly cruel' sums me up perfectly. Whilst I love to top and have fun in a casual situation, I am far more interested in pushing boundaries and developing long term servitude. It's not just about wanting someone to accompany me to various kinky events, worship my body, carry my shopping bags, clean my shoes, shine my latex and provide general servitude… I want someone to offer their mind, body and soul to me, whether it be for my amusement, pleasure or varying degrees of torture, I want someone to lay themselves bare and vulnerable. It takes a lot of courage to surrender… Submission is beautiful and should be valued - I don't want to push someone down - I want to build them up to be the best they can be.

As a sub/bottom my main interests are in psychological domination & conditioning. In the past I would have described myself as mostly submissive, but sadly very few people ever made me feel really submissive to them - it takes someone strong, capable, intelligent, and who really 'gets' me to be able to make me feel comfortable enough to really give myself and submit to them. The things that I enjoy most are emotional masochism, d/s, humiliation & degradation and er, shame. Oh, and being cuddled while I cry afterwards. If you think along the lines of an abused 50's housewife then you'll be on the right track. Just think of all the horrible things you were told never to do to girls? Yeah, those..

I adore 'dressing up'. I love wearing beautiful lingerie, stockings, corsets, heels and latex. Although I do have a penchant for stripy knickers and knee high socks.

Okay I lied when I said I wasn't looking for anything - I'm always happy to hear from lovely girls.. especially if this takes your fancy..

Obligatory 'What I Like List':

• Hendricks Gin & Tonic with Cucumber
• Intelligent Conversation
• e e cummings - if you can guess my favourite poem you get a prize
• Humiliation & Degradation
• Expensive Footwear
• D/s & Power Exchange
• Sewing, baking and generally imagining I'm a 50s housewife.
• Rope
• AP, Coco De Mer, Bordelle
• Crying
• Men in suits (with cufflinks, and leather belts)
• Begging, crying, pleading
• The feeling I get when my favourite song plays
• Sensory Deprivation
• Spanking
• Latex Latex Latex
• Travelling
• Feeling so vulnerable that you could cry
• Shopping
• Saying words like "Super", "Awesome" and "Totally"
• Oh and Cuddles

What I don't Like:

• Judgemental people
• Messages telling me about your cock
• Eating with your mouth open

The End

"How long has it been since someone touched part of you other than your body?" -Laurel Hoodwrit

Eye colour: Green   Hair colour: Blonde   Height: 5ft 8in  

This profile was last updated on 12 Apr 12, 4:02 PM.

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