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Profile:	Backdooruk
Created on:	11 Oct 1999
Last visit:	2 hours ago
Country:	UK
Location:	Somerset
Sex/gender:	Male
Homepage:	::1
Age:	47
Hair colour:	Brown
Eye colour:	Brown
Height:	5ft 10in

Gaius Valerius Catullus wrote: Pedicabo ego vos et irrumabo

My personality

Dominance is the key element in my relationships. I'm very empathic (which fits my style of domination and sadism), kind and tolerant.

I'm Polyamorous. I'm Polyamorous when I'm single just as much as when I'm involved in one or more committed relationships. I'm also very sexually focused.

My circumstances

I own one slave. Consensual slavery takes work, it isn't natural, but the work is worth it for those attracted to that dynamic. wyllingwon has decades of experience as a submissive on the lesbian SM scene.

I work (as a software engineer) and live in a rural location. I'm open to new contacts, serious and casual. It's difficult to be any more clear because my emotional philosophy of being open means to some extent considering anything.

My BDSM

I'm comfortable in my sadism and my other fetishes. For me it's a core part of my sexuality: I am very sexual, but then I have a wide definition of what sex is. My interests include complete domination, group scenes (threesomes), service, training, conditioning, mind control, humiliation, anal sex, fisting, watersports, pain, canes, medical scenes, rape play and more.

My Randomness

Some things I've done: Written and published fanzines, taken part in wilderness bushcraft courses, been a radio presenter, ran fetish parties, organized a national poetry and story competition, trained 5 days a week at martial arts.

Some things you'll never hear me say: Subbie, Newbie, Pussy (except when talking about cats) bum love Some Words and phrases you might here me utter: cunt (in it's goddess-given sense) I'm going to come over your face while hurting you

Things I dislike

Prejudice: Expect me to speak out against it whenever I see it, whether it effects me or not.

Received wisdom: Expect me to analyze and critique memes (anything that is believed simply because many people believe it), particularly in BDSM.

People who are habitually negative to other people.

Thank you taking the time to read this. To find out more, just start up a conversation by sending a memo.

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This profile was last updated on 24 Nov 09, 12:32 PM

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