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I'm a bit of an incongruity. I'm a loner by nature, yet I need a lot of attention. I'm a strong person who tends to take charge of situations that immediately effect me, but I don't like to put myself forward and really appreciate a supportive companion. I'm a non-materialist, but I'm dedicating a lot of my energies to developing a multi-million £ corporation. I'm a practising occultist, but a real skeptic. I like subs who have their own mind and express their opinions, especially if they agree with mine.

I do require a photo. It's not a beauty contest, honestly. I read things from photos, and I like to have a visual impression of who I'm talking to. Trying to second guess what will attract me visually is a waste of time anyway, I don't go for what the magazines tell me to. And my photos are posted, it's only fair.

I'm a nurturing Domme, not into humiliation. I like an obedient sub I can be proud to be seen with. I'm not a hard player, but a sensual player. And I like a bit of endorphin myself, although I don't sub.

A few lists:

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Things I like:

Long hair

A sense of fun

Intelligence (can't emphasise this one enough)

Creativity

Geeky interests, my scifi/fantasy side needs friends who understand the references and mindset

Pretty eyes (sufficiently pretty eyes is the one thing that could overcome the lack of long hair, but don't tell anyone.)

Cats

Music and musicians

A good singing voice (extra points for that one)

Sensation play

D/s

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Things I don't like:

Facial hair

Crudity

Liars

Salesmen and other people who underestimate my intelligence

Fanatics of any kind

Temperament. One outburst over something trivial could put me off someone for life.

Pubic shaving (I may sometimes like them young, but I'm not a paedophile)

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Things I'm becoming flexible on;

Football fans...as long as they're not yobs, and can keep it in perspective

Lawyers (I don't trust them in general, but I've been known to make exceptions)

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Hard limits:

Toilet play (any kind)

Executive types

Smokers

Cat haters

People who try to impress me with what they own, rather than who they are

Married/partnered men

Heavy drinkers or drug users

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