Just NOT me. Not yet, anyway.

IC Name: Arbuthnot Joined: 23 Dec 2004 Last visit: 41 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 65

If you're a (probably) mature woman who likes the idea of discipline, spanking or CP by an authoritative but rounded, sensible and friendly man, perhaps we should talk. I'm experienced, can be strict, but always flexible enough to prioritise mutual fulfilment. Dialogue is generally important for me; it's not just a matter of whacking. I'm responsible, considerate, safe and observe limits. I'm also active, intelligent and fairly fit, with a wide range of interests. If you feel the need for a stern lecture and a sore bottom, let's discuss possibilities.

With the right person I'd be open to developing a more extensive friendship, in which discipline and spanking play an important part, but are not the whole. A sexual relationship with the right woman, perhaps one in which domination and submission is the essence, would also be welcome, but it is not essential from my point of view. I am not afraid to enter a committed relationship if that's how things develop, but neither is it a "must" for me.

However, if what you are seeking is a kind but strict man who can provide regular discipline when you need it, a reliable mentor, or senior "headmaster" figure, do feel free to contact me. That does not mean I am a "player". I aim to be a man of integrity who keeps his word. I believe that anyone who purports to discipline others needs to be self-disciplined. Though I am experienced in giving corporal punishment, from handspankings to serious thrashings, I have little or no experience of many other BDSM practices. I can, for example, tie someone securely for punishment when necessary but have no experience of complicated bondage for its own sake. Figging, nipple torture, hair pulling and flogging a bare back are all within my experience, but little beyond that. I am always willing to learn new things, however.

I am always open to a mutually respectful discussion of desires and aspirations with any woman here and I will try to be thoughtful, open minded and considerate.

That's my piece said. What about you?

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TRIBUTES FROM OTHER IC MEMBERS

“..you are a blithering idiot..” Asshole_Magnet 14/12/10

"Please try to tone down your effeminate ad hominem tendencies." MaxFaust 05/12/10

“Damn you silly old man” Strokes 321 25/04/10

“..the sanctimonious Arbuthnot types..” Euripides 01/09/09

Eye colour: Blue   Hair colour: Grey   Height: 5ft 9in  

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