Sir William Russell Flint RA, PRSWA (1880-1969) The Unseen Target - So true!

IC Name: Ama_Sidero Joined: 27 Feb 2005 Last visit: 64 minutes ago Sex/gender: Female Location: Southeast UK, UK Age: 50

I am looking for both a male submissive for myself and a femsub to share with M376M, as he switches. The dynamic may be discussed and refined. M376M is on the SouthCoast, I am an hour South of London. therefore, a girl in the South preferred.

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This might save a few a lot of time: I don't switch and have no intention to. .

I mean what I say and say what I mean.

I am looking for:

A painslut who lives local to Me (Surrey,Hants,Berks borders). Painslut = edgeplay of needles, electricity, etc.

Who can accomodate.

Someone not attached so there is no secrecy and guilt involved

Someone old/mature enough to be proud to accompany Me to both vanilla and non vanilla events and be an open part of My life.

Someone confident and secure within themselves

Someone with a good sense of humour and intelligence

Someone who is obedient and submissive.

Someone who is PROACTIVE in anticipating a Mistress's needs and not lying about waiting for orders and being happy there are none.

Someone who likes to dance unless you are THAT masochistic. lol

Someone who lives within an hour of the GU51 area. While many say they can travel it easily, practicality shows that a long journey in traffic will make meets seldom. I wish for someone who can spontaneously do things. Distance does prohibit that.

Someone with transport. I drive, but not at night nor in cities. Part of your duties would be driving to me, then driving to events. Therefore distance is an issue as that can add to your driving time significantly. I also have no concept of road safety and will hurt/tease you while you drive.

If you hair is long enough to pull your head back and chew on your neck, that is a real bonus. If not, that is ok, I bite anywhere...

While I am not officially Pagan, I lean strongly towards Paganism, ecology and the spirituality of nature, the world and our existence. While I seem somewhat conservitive, I have done so as a compromise for the good of other people and not from choice. While I get along with most people, I am most drawn to people with a connection to nature and our universe.

Someone who is able to discuss things for hours and it seems like only minutes have passed. Also someone who is able to communicate sufficiently and preferably make me laugh until my sides ache.

Someone who doesn't stop when the "chase" is done.

My limits are children and animals. Otherwise, you are Mine to do with what I will.

ETA: I'm filthy. I will hurt you and do things to you because I want to. Not to degrade you or humiliate you, but because I know you won't like them. If you are squeamish don't waste our times.

I do NOT want:

Money. (Presents might be nice though, just because they are sweet. lol Have to be upfront about it here, because I seem to be very bad at the hinting batting eyelashes stuff.) ps...love chocolate but don't really want to get fat.

Sex (although if I want it, I will take it)

Trauma and drama. Know your place.

Someone who will want to get married and have babies. I did have written here that you could get married to someone else, but I think not. While I am Polyamorous, I am finding that various definations of "poly" don't suit me well. I wouldn't take kindly to being told after the fact that you slept with someone else (because you are poly, after all). Or listening to a wish list of what you would like to find in your "other" partners. So, I think someone monogomous would probably suit me better, just to keep me from being annoyed at simple thoughtlessness (which men are prone to).

Someone who needs to be attached at the hip and have constant reassurance

Someone looking for a "sugar-mommy" - I will not pay for your car insurance, university or clothes.

Brats. In any way, shape, or form. If you have to brat to get the attention, I really can't be arsed. The worse you behave, the more I ignore you. Trust Me...it won't work.

Ideally, the situation would be: (please note that I don't think the following is realistic - just an ideal, and you will know My end goal at least)

I am looking for a local play partner/LTR. Not a kinkster only, but not live-in. Someone to have a D/s LTR with, but who will not make unreasonable demands. Ideally, it would be someone who would be proud to go vanilla places with their Mistress (sorry toyboys, you are cute, but I am not going to pretend to be your Mommy). Also, who would become a part and "friend" of My family - bbq's, holidays, etc. However, though the relationship would be 24/7. it would NOT be live-in, thus requires someone with some independance and integrity.

I am realistic enough to know that I probably won't find the above. Therefore, we can just start on a painslut/D/s playmate level....

If I find you interesting, we will meet rather soon, preferably at a bdsm event. This weeds out the time-wasters. It is nothing to get excited about, it is merely a reality check - particularly if you have no real life references on any of the sites.

About Me:

I am a sensual Domme with a very dark sense of humour. I love the D/s side of bdsm but have a very sadistic streak. However, this does NOT include humiliation, etc. Although, for some bizarre reason, many of the simple things I find really amusing, mischievious and acts to show devotion , other people talk about as humiliating). I prefer to build Mine up to be their best and achieve their goals. I will humiliate if I think you need it, without hesitation. I will punish without hesitation and it would not be something you would like. Mine don't get punished very often. They know Me well enough to behave. I don't do forced fem, actually, I don't do forced much at all unless I'm provoked.....I sincerely expect Mine to WANT to do what I want them to. Restraints are cool, but how much harder is it to just lie there and let Me? If I force, there isn't much submission, is there?

I am high-protocol. You will open doors, carry my bags and sit at my feet. Such is life.

I do what I want, when I want, how I want - to you. Live with it.

I am very patient, but once the patience runs out, it is gone, finito, permanently. I do not tolerate games, lies or manipulation. I might give you the benefit of the doubt for a while, but once found out, it is over. period. So, no games players, please.

I have years of experience with both live-in and live-out slaves and subs, male and female. I also take playing seriously and meaningfully. I have only occasionally played with people I don't own and am not really interested in doing so. I am tactile and do not like having to judge my activities according to how well I know someone. I want to get lost in play. I consider Play and Bdsm a form of intimacy - a spiritual connection and an exchange of palpable energy. Therefore the "connection" with a person is very important to me. The goal is either agonising ecstacy or ecstatic agony - depending on how I feel that day.

I have a partner and family. I take My responsibilities seriously. My partner is lizzie, who knows all, but has no interest in playing with or watching others in any way shape or form.....I have My mother in law living here, thus cannot accomodate at all. Even household service tasks, while possible, would be done in a vanilla manner with discreet D/s S/m. (I realise that makes it considerably less attractive to most people, but that is life, I'm afraid.) To date, I have never had a submissive do my gardening or do DIY because I am fiercly protective of my privacy and interviews have never gone as far,

I am quite hypocritical in that while I am not monogomous, but expect (would like) Mine to be. However, at this technical, playmate stage, I do not expect any kind of mental bond, though it would be advantageous. Basically, at this point, no strings, only play. I would, however, prefer someone who will be my submissive and not continue to loo for a live in partner.

I speak before I think, I forget, I laugh, I poke and I don't take Myself seriously at all. Someone once said they couldn't believe I am a Domme because I was so "angelic". Liz says it lulls people into a false sense of security. lol If My not being a bitch will diminish respect, then it won't work either.

Being, Poly, to me that means I have meaningful relationships. It does not mean I have sex with the boys. They are my "Leather Family". Currently my family includes:

M376M, who lives some distance from Me. This means I do not see him as often as I would like. He has has been with Me since 2009 and I am not looking to "replace" him. He is a switch and any girl who belongs to me would more than likely be topped by him and suffer with him.

rogerow is my owned body, since November 2009, registered SRN 916-377-088. He is a lovely body and a Female Supremacist.

Lizzie is no longer active in the scene, but is prevalent in Second Life.

crikket is on the fringes and a regular playmate and friend.

The Family Dynamic:

They all know each other and occasionally meet at events where we all attend, such as Artemis. However, I prefer to attend events alone with them individually, so it isn't as though there are "entourages" or "stables" or "being lost in the crowd". In the Poly manner, all are aware of each other, but it doesn't mean they have to be in each other's faces.

The dynamic is one of transparency and honesty. They know what I am doing with who, although I do not talk about them to each other (usually) and I do not have them competing against each other.

About contacting Me:

Don't bother emailing unless you think of something original to do with it - and a photograph is a must - Otherwise it will go straight into the bin. I would like to see that some thought has actually gone into it,.

If you can't be bothered to make some effort, I am certainly not interested in the least. If you are that lazy at the beginning, One can only imagine how lazy you are when owned and feel secure.

Please put your location in your email. If you are not close enough, I will let you know. Location is QUITE important. If you are not within 30 minutes of GU51, it is doubtful. (It says an hour above - it is because everyone will say they can get here within that time anyway - Googlemaps is my friend).

The WAY I SCREEN EMAILS:

If you email and there is no photo attached, I shall not read it.

If you send Me a chat request, I will probably not reply.

If you send a message that says, "on msn now" or something like that, I will not reply.

If you send a message which says, can u teach me, or show more, or the more common "will u use ur strapon on me" ....I will not reply and most likely block you.

If you send a short message, I will not reply.

it sounds as though I am really difficult, but the logic is this. I am a communicator. I would like a communicator. If your messages are incoherent or you can't be arsed, we wouldn't get along anyway.

If you send any kind of message with sexual content in it, I will block you.

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Previous Owner of Amashalo (IRS 658-610-399, OWK registration deleted) previously known as needamistress198 on this website for two years real-time live-in service, ending in 2007.

for a reality check.....check informedconsent, profile Amazoniax or FL under Amazonia_Valkyrie. I *am* real. I can also be found at local public events and play parties M_376_M and I run @Play_Space, a RACK Members-only playclub, on the Surrey, Hants, Berks borders (Jct 4 or 4a off the M3). Questions may be directed to either of us or Lady_Alys, who normally is our House-Domme. There is also a Play_Space group & chatroom. Not a lot of activity there, but feel free to use them and look for information under the @Play_Space profile.

The @Play_Space profile is also mine.

The @Sun_Sea_Sadism profile is also mine.

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Links I don't want to lose in blogs. Though I lose them when I rewrite the profile anyway! LOL

BDSM Activity Questionaire to complete and send to me if you are that interested

D/s information - Male Dom oriented but still good stuff!

Fem-dom lifestyle essays by Mistress Steel

Domme blogs - I've only read a couple but they were informative.

Low-burning Candles for Waxing

9 Levels of Submission

International Kink Venues/Accomodation

Amsterdam S/m accomodation Rome fetish club @sun_sea_sadism

Downloadable BDSM Literature (copyright free) Venus in Furs

Saving to read: Emotional Masochism

Kinky Books Books on Punishment

A very good and in-depth article about behaviour "on the scene"

Picture codes are 286179 and 286187

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