18 Dec 2011

IC Name: AlphaP0wer Joined: 4 Jun 2005 Last visit: 8 hours ago Sex/gender: Male Location: London, UK Age: 56

If you are an experienced submissively minded female or have submissive cravings that you need to act upon and would like to find a genuine, reliable, Dominant male who will take the time and effort to help you Investigate your desires then the following may be of interest to you.

Ideally you will be looking for a full interpersonal relationship & commitment when sufficient trust and confidence has been built up by both parties. The foundations of the relationship will be based upon the development of a close strong friendship and a deep understanding of each others psychological/sexual needs and desires. The ability to talk freely & openly and have a good laugh with one another is absolutely essential.

I have the utmost respect for a submissive female because she is putting not only her trust but also her physical as well as her emotional and psychological well-being in the hands of her Master.

I regard it as one of my responsibilities to her to ensure that such Trust is well founded since without this it would impossible to allow the relationship to gradually progress into those areas initially agreed to be out of bounds. Indeed the loss of this trust would render the relationship untenable.

So, a little about me. I am an intelligent, well educated, mentally and emotionally stable 57 year old(although IC says I am only 56) guy with a Very Good sense of humor, a vivid imagination and a very natural assertive sexual streak. I am 5ft 8in tall and am medium build. I have a number of good social friends and I enjoy the usual pastimes such as going to pubs, theatre, cinema, restaurants etc.so you can expect a fairly active social life and you will not be cut off from contact with your own friends.

Unlike many male Dom's who expect to get a response to a short undescriptive message of the 'let me tie you up, beat you and rape you, bitch' variety I will not even consider a meeting unless I feel that we have sufficient in common and also have similar long-term objectives in order to make it worth while for Both of us.

This may seem smug or foolish to some or perhaps even arrogant to others but it is no more than an expression of a practical truth. I have come to this position through play-meetings with individuals who were not interested in a relationship and, frankly, while enjoyable they did not give the deep satisfaction that I crave because there was no continuity involved.

The right sub for me will understand what I mean when I say that I will cherish you, adore you, love you and control you. You should also be able to see through the apparent paradox that while I am assertive I am also a very 'giving' person so that during my more romantic moods you can expect to receive unsolicited gifts and other pleasant surprises.

None of this, however, should be taken as a sign of weakness, only of true affection. I am very broadminded and unshockable and there is probably very little that I would say no to or refuse to do if was something you expressed as a desire. I can be very cruel when required but never maliciously violent. I am not about to go into a list of activities that I would do with you because to do so would be trite at this stage as we both know the score here..... All I will stress is that I very much enjoy the psychological aspect of the D/S relationship.

I have no racial prejudices, indeed I like learning about other cultures at first hand, therefore contact is welcome from females of any ethnic background. Height is not an issue nor is your age. But Personality is, of course, extremely important so you must have a pleasant disposition, a good sense of humor and an honest desire to explore your submissive nature.

I have no desire to 'break' you or turn you into little more than a completely subservient automaton so it does not matter if you have a strong outgoing personality. In fact I like my subs to be spirited, have a good personality and definitely not a doormat.

I do not anticipate immediate success but if the above does hold some interest for you then you have nothing to lose by dropping me a reply. In private correspondence I will be willing to enter into discussion about any aspect of the relationship frankly and openly and expect the same from you. So if this does pique your interest, THIS is no time to be shy!

I prefer to talk on the telephone after a few exchanged emails / memos, as I feel this is the best way forward to developing an understanding of each others needThen its good to meet for a chat over a coffee etct If you feel that you would like to know more about me then please feel free to memo me and ask any questions that you wish. I will reply to all memos and answer with honesty. I look forward to hearing from you.

Eye colour: Brown   Hair colour: Grey   Height: 5ft 8in  

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