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Dystopia: Decadence & Ultraviolence, Manchester, 27th March 2010    [other banners]
Dystopia: Decadence & Ultraviolence, Manchester, 27th March 2010

IC : Profiles : Alize_Switch
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Profile:Alize_Switch
Created on:8 Mar 2007
Last visit:3 hours ago
Country:UK
Location:Southend/Crawley
Sex/gender:Female
Age:51
Hair colour:DarkBlonde
Eye colour:Green
Weight:11st 3lb
Height:5ft 7in
BMI:24.4

Not really looking thanks, quite contented with current arrangements but if someone exceptional comes along.....

Names used on this profile.

The main one Caracal, ah what is a caracal? I first heard mention of them when I was 15, reading about the San of the Kalahari. In their mythology, the Caracal or Desert Lynx was the star bride of their greatest hunter The Dawn's Heart.

The largest of the small cats, caracals are solitary and rather shy of contact, sometimes heard in the distance and rarely seen but fiercely protective of their young. Highly successful at hunting, they use the techniques of big cats for ground based prey but also have a remarkable ability for jumping high in the air to catch birds. Apparently easy to tame though, they were the original cats amongst the pigeons - tamed caracals were set loose amongst flocks of pigeons and wagers were laid as to how many they could capture in one leap. I can be quite good at bringing down overstuffed, pompous, fat pigeons, they flutter to the ground with such speed after one swipe from a well honed and manicured claw so best not try to push me then eh ;)...

I don't need to be a big cat, I'm quite happy with where and who I am. I'm confident in what and when I do my stuff and have nothing to prove to anyone else, only to myself. I carry the mark of the greatest hunter to remind myself that I do something or spend time with someone because I want to, not because I need to - I need to go to work so have no desire to be needing anything in my personal life.

The Tower, a name adopted on 1 March 2010 and reverted from 12 days later. I found an old email dated June 2008 which gave the tarot meaning and it kind of represents given what I was going into that month and when I came out on the other side. Yes, it's cryptic but that is as much as I give away.

The early name Alize is the Hebrew version of my real name and the one I used for my first year of properly going to events. I rather outgrew her although my tag of 'The nice lady with the whip' came from that era.

Imelda Constantinople was a one day wonder.

Switch Cat is in reserve.

General

Me, I'm the nice lady with the whip. Sometimes spotted out and about, usually discreetly and serenely observing from the shadows and very rarely seen in the full glare of the limelight - it just isn't me! I'm not shy but I am reserved, there is a difference. Try reading this for enlightenment.

You won't see me in a big dress up and dance fetish club - done them, spent most of the time outside away from the crowds, chatter and doof doof music so now I go to players clubs to play and meet friends in an environment where I can hear myself speak, see where I am going and be able to think clearly without needing an aspirin.

Also proficient with and have an enjoyment of various other implements of joy and pleasure, whichever mood I am in will direct my fancy. I play when time allows and I go for quality over quantity every time. If I meet you out somewhere and we get on then there may be the possibility of play but never expect or pressurise me because it won't happen. I'm easily spooked due to some crappy experiences so talk to me first, find out if we are compatible and bide your time. If it is right it will happen...

Very much a switch, me both topping and bottoming can be seen in public but my dominance and submission are strictly private and only shared with those who are part of the dynamic. My approach is that of praise not punishment, pleasure not pain, humility not humiliation and nurture not nastinesss.

If you interest me you're unlikely to have an on screen name that includes any of the following: Master, Sir, Princess, Goddess, Mistress, Sub, Slave, Slut, Lady, 4uruse etc - get the drift? My well manicured claw will twitch...(see above).

My pet soapbox subject - Aftercare - just as important a part of bdsm as knowing how to use a toy or pulling someone apart psychologically - there are too many who want the fun or challenge without the responsibility that comes with it.

We call it play but it isn't a game.

Aftercare.

This profile was last updated on 21 Mar 10, 3:41 PM

(Please read the cautions on About Personal Ads before responding to an advert. In particular, "Flat 51, 17 Holywell Hill, St Albans, AL1 1DT" is a mailbox address used by a persistent scam artist.)

 
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