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Discussion of O&P: Ownership. Possession. Consent. Responsibility. Respect. House. Service. Dignity. Authenticity. Rituals. See the group profile page for more details. Please try to use the working definitions in the O&P Wiki when making posts.
| 6 Dec 10 | O_and_P's online network (10) by Tanos | (10 Dec 10, 2:18 PM by Tanos) |
| Following IC's addition of group icons (like the O&P one:
) you can now make these little icons appear on your profile and posts for groups you have some affinity with. [more...]
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| 7 Dec 10 | Respect for Property (5) by mia | (8 Dec 10, 10:03 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| This is taken from the O&P Manifesto: [more...] | ||
| 30 Nov 10 | External and Internal Forces (7) by Taintedinnocence | (5 Dec 10, 2:06 PM by SinPar) |
| Other threads have made me think about this. How much has external forces - others opinions - and your own feelings influenced your submission or dominance? [more...] | ||
| 7 Nov 10 | O&P Open, Manchester, Sat 4 December, 2010 (43) by Tanos | (3 Dec 10, 6:49 PM by Taintedinnocence) |
| There will be another O&P Open in Manchester on the afternoon of Saturday 4th December 2010. The event will be from 1pm to 5pm, with social time followed by a round table discussion from 2pm. The venue is the downstairs room of the Taurus Bar, 1 Canal Street, Manchester, M1 3HE (the northeast / Piccadilly end of Canal Street.) [more...] | ||
| 2 Nov 10 | debating o&p (4) by hollythedolly | (30 Nov 10, 7:26 PM by Unicorn1990) |
| As the majority of people in my life know that i'm a submissive. [more...] | ||
| 14 Nov 10 | Do couples divorce once one owns the other? (37) by MasterRonnie | (29 Nov 10, 8:15 PM by ClassAct2005) |
Hi, this is my first post on IC so I hope you will be kind  As my profile states I have been with my girl since school and we have been married for over 25 years. However, we have only found the lifestyle in the last seven years or so. I have accepted girl's commitment but in the terms of internal enslavement there is some way to go. It has occurred to me that marriage is a contradiction to ownership or at least superfluous. There are no legal or financial benefits these days either. In fact I feel it would be a more binding form of enslavement if we weren't married. So to cut a long OP [more...]
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| 4 Oct 10 | long distance relationships in o&p (19) by hollythedolly | (22 Nov 10, 3:09 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| I'm quite curious to know how others opinions are on long distance relationships would work within o&p. [more...] | ||
| 21 Nov 10 | Podcasts (13) by SirOpenSource | (22 Nov 10, 3:04 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| I have long thought of podcasts as a better way of putting across a message than using blogs [blogs do have their place]. [more...] | ||
| 25 Oct 10 | Correction/discipline by another Dominant (80) by SirOpenSource | (20 Nov 10, 9:58 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| This arises from an issue I raised in the 'Correction in front of others' thread by @Tanos. The question being Would you allow your submissive to be corrected/disciplined by another Dominant? What level of consent and responsibility is required for an action such as this and what are the problems it may create in the relationship? [more...] | ||
| 6 Nov 10 | D will vs S will (34) by SirOpenSource | (14 Nov 10, 10:30 AM by Imagination42) |
| In any relationship there may be times when the two sides vehemently disagree on a matter causing friction. The simplest way to solve this would be for the Dominant will to take precedent but sometimes intelligent consideration of another way is beneficial. [more...] | ||
| 20 Sep 10 | London O&P meet Sat 6th November (94) by Diablos_patience | (8 Nov 10, 9:34 PM by Dave_Shiney) |
| After this thread it has been suggested that we arrange an O&P meet here in London, so here it is. [more...] | ||
| 23 Oct 10 | Correction in front of others? (32) by Tanos | (8 Nov 10, 6:12 PM by totallycoverme) |
| Do you think it's better for a dominant to correct a submissive in front of others, or wait until they are alone together? "Correct" as in verbally reprimand or physically punish. I'm not so much interested in cases where it's socially inappropriate (comparable to that woman in the supermarket smacking her child in the aisle) but on the effect on the submissive and other submissive peers. [more...] | ||
| 24 Oct 10 | Change (4) by Taintedinnocence | (25 Oct 10, 12:15 PM by Belasarius) |
| Ok, apologies for all that this may bore. [more...] | ||
| 23 Oct 10 | Stress (5) by Taintedinnocence | (24 Oct 10, 5:03 PM by mia) |
| I was wondering what effect stress has on you in your relationship? [more...] | ||
| 8 May 10 | PP protocol (12) by Belasarius | (19 Oct 10, 10:23 PM by curvy_bottom) |
| We have a PP protocol (personal pronoun). She has been striving since New Year's day to remove "I" from her speech and writing (with the proviso that I will permit it in important and difficult conversations). She's done it. [more...] | ||
| 16 Oct 10 | Selflessness. (28) by Diablos_patience | (19 Oct 10, 2:27 PM by MissKimberley) |
| Selflessness is obviously a trait which would be considered desirable in a slave/submissive… dare I say it should actually be compulsorily. [more...] | ||
| 18 Oct 10 | Invulnarable vs selfless? (6) by othyim | (19 Oct 10, 1:45 PM by othyim) |
| I was reading the selflessness thread, and a few minutes later, I read something I found interesting, that sort of touched some of the things mentioned in that thead. For I dont want to hijack that thread, I'll start a new one here. [more...] | ||
| 24 Sep 10 | Older ways of doing D/s and M/s (28) by Tanos | (18 Oct 10, 10:28 PM by Altissimus) |
| The BDSM Code thread prompted an O&P question. Are there any older styles of D/s and M/s that you like sound of? (or even miss?) I mean anything from Old Guard, to the modern US Leather scene, to the Gorean subculture. [more...] | ||
| 29 Sep 10 | Other types of events? (66) by Tanos | (12 Oct 10, 2:07 PM by Belasarius) |
| Ideas for other types of O&P event have now come up on the
London O&P Open thread and on "Older ways of doing D/s and M/s", and the subject deserves it's own thread [more...]
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| 9 Oct 10 | Wants and Needs (15) by mia | (11 Oct 10, 9:26 PM by Diablos_patience) |
| Recently, i echoed a sentiment expressed by someone else on here (i forget the poster - so apologies) about what being a slave, or being in this relationship means to me, which was that his wants come before my needs. [more...] | ||
