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Discussion of O&P: Ownership. Possession. Consent. Responsibility. Respect. House. Service. Dignity. Authenticity. Rituals. See the group profile page for more details. Please try to use the working definitions in the O&P Wiki when making posts.
| 18 Jul 11 | isolated (8) by petit_chat | (2 Aug 11, 11:53 AM by MarkMyWord) |
| I feel quite isolated at the moment and feel very down about it and just wondered if others feel more or less the same... [more...] | ||
| 5 Jul 11 | Doing something for Master (13) by totallycoverme | (16 Jul 11, 11:49 AM by flamesdesire) |
| vs doing something for yourself. [more...] | ||
| 12 Apr 11 | Security of the Collar (6) by SirOpenSource | (12 Jul 11, 12:59 PM by ushaben) |
| I have often heard it said that slaves feel a great vulnerability when their collar is removed. Removal may be for medical/practical reasons or for punishment rather than termination of the relationship. Have you as a D/M used the psychological effect of this and noticed it's power? [more...] | ||
| 23 Jun 11 | Ownership and 'Vetos' (6) by mia | (4 Jul 11, 9:11 AM by Ms_Valentine) |
| From the Manifesto: [more...] | ||
| 19 Jun 11 | Expressing Frustrations (7) by mia | (26 Jun 11, 11:36 AM by ClassAct2005) |
| We discussed this at the most recent O&P Open meeting in Manchester, but i'd be interested in hearing other people's experiences and views on this. [more...] | ||
| 22 Apr 11 | Limitations of the reach of training? (31) by successfu1 | (21 Jun 11, 7:47 PM by ushaben) |
| I've been pondering the idea of where the ultimate boundaries are of what can be trained. As I've been in a messy health place lately I've come to learn to retrain muscles and how my body works. In lots of areas of life we get trained in and learn new skills - learning to drive, play a piano, specific areas of our work. [more...] | ||
| 19 Jun 11 | Household manuals (2) by Tanos | (20 Jun 11, 6:01 PM by Ms_Eve_White) |
| At the Manchester O&P Open yesterday we talked about one of totallycoverme's topics, asking whether anyone had written a household manual: [more...] | ||
| 18 Jun 11 | Notices by mia | (18 Jun 11, 6:55 PM by mia) |
| This thread is for any important notices people would like to share. Think of it as similar to the Births, Deaths and Marriages section of a newspaper - except feel free to post other things that are important to you and yours (regarding O&P, M/s or D/s relationships) - for example collarings, anniversaries, new additions to poly set ups, etc. [more...] | ||
| 31 May 11 | June 12th (London) and 18th (Manchester) topics? (6) by Tanos | (17 Jun 11, 2:13 PM by totallycoverme) |
| We've got two O&P Opens in June, the first in West London on Sunday 12th and the second in Manchester on Saturday 18th. [more...] | ||
| 31 May 11 | London O and P (15) by successfu1 | (13 Jun 11, 10:52 PM by Taintedinnocence) |
| In conjunction with the helpful folks of the Fem Sub Club to secure a venue, the London O and P meet is back on! Since a number of out of town O and P group members will be up for the FSC it's a handy time. My apologies for the late notice, but I do hope some folks will be able to make it for a brunch/post clubbing recovery. I am unable to make it to the FSC but look forward to seeing some of you afterwards. [more...] | ||
| 24 May 11 | London O&P meet, whats happening? (8) by Ms_Adventure | (12 Jun 11, 10:04 AM by successfu1) |
| I guess the title says it all. [more...] | ||
| 15 Feb 11 | Coping With Disappointment (17) by just_iana | (6 Jun 11, 10:18 PM by skadii) |
| I struggle with expressing myself when I am disappointed. [more...] | ||
| 4 May 11 | Self Improvement and D/s, M/s, O&P? (5) by mia | (16 May 11, 6:12 PM by little_slavegirl) |
| On reading the thread about how D-types can help improve their s-types either for the benefit of the D or the s or both, i was wondering if any of you had experience of improving yourself off your own back, as a direct result of the relationship? [more...] | ||
| 21 Feb 11 | What I took away from the Feb O&P Open (17) by Dragonfyre | (1 May 11, 3:36 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| Hi guys, [more...] | ||
| 17 Apr 11 | Yesterday's O & P Meeting in Manchester (10) by misunderstoodslave | (19 Apr 11, 8:07 PM by pinkylucy) |
| Thanks to Tanos for organising these meets, as I find them really informative and therapeutic by turns. [more...] | ||
| 13 Mar 11 | Hands (22) by othyim | (16 Apr 11, 2:14 AM by mutable) |
| Being a very self sufficient person, it occurred to me, how the use of your hands could be taken away from you. [more...] | ||
| 25 Mar 11 | Topics for April's Manchester O&P Open (9) by Tanos | (15 Apr 11, 7:47 PM by Taintedinnocence) |
The next O&P Open is on Sat 16th April in the basement of the Taurus bar in Manchester. Please follow that link to the event announcement thread for more details and to say you're going if you've not already  [more...]
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| 17 Dec 10 | Feelings of a slave in a new relationship... (9) by Bacchus_Plateaux | (11 Apr 11, 9:22 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| i am on the verge of a new relationship, let me clarify first, i am slave to a Mistress who has intention of owning me once i prove myself. [more...] | ||
| 1 Apr 11 | Styles of O&P (11) by Tanos | (11 Apr 11, 9:30 AM by HalloweenWhite) |
| In the chatroom evening on Tuesday, TheFalconer raised the topic of different styles of O&P, and how he's used the Orientalist vision of eastern harems to develop the idea of a slave as a prized possession, devoted to pleasing their owner (have I got that right?) How do other people characterise their style of O&P? [more...] | ||
| 24 Mar 11 | Bratting needs to stop! (16) by successfu1 | (1 Apr 11, 10:56 PM by totallycoverme) |
| Bratting. It gets discussed a fair bit elsewhere and generally concluded to be a challenge for some Doms but primarily pisses off themajority, often resulting in their withdrawal from a situation rather than engagement. [more...] | ||
