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Discussion of O&P: Ownership. Possession. Consent. Responsibility. Respect. House. Service. Dignity. Authenticity. Rituals. See the group profile page for more details. Please try to use the working definitions in the O&P Wiki when making posts.
| 24 Mar 12 | Discussion Topics for the O&P Open on Sat 9th June (2) by secretsmile_101 | (26 May 12, 8:50 AM by totallycoverme) |
| There will be an O&P Open in Manchester on Saturday 9th June in the usual place, the downstairs room of Taurus Bar, 1 Canal Street, M1 3HE. All the event details can be found here. If you can make it, please click and say that you're going if you haven't already. [more...] | ||
| 24 Aug 10 | Introductions thread (43) by Tanos | (25 May 12, 12:31 AM by londonFem) |
| I've just modified the group description to say: "anyone is welcome to start threads in the group as long as they relate to O&P ideas: questions, comments, introductions, collaring announcements etc" with the two in bold added just now. [more...] | ||
| 29 May 11 | Marriage and/or collaring (23) by successfu1 | (20 May 12, 8:42 PM by Ms_Valentine) |
| I'm not sure wether this theme has been completely tackled before but touched on. If it's a repost I'll happily take it down. [more...] | ||
| 8 May 12 | All A Matter of Time? (4) by mia | (10 May 12, 7:53 PM by totallycoverme) |
| There are differences between ownership and posession as pointed out by the O&P Manifesto and one that struck me was the idea of time spent with the dominant. For example possession is described like this at one point [more...] | ||
| 24 Sep 10 | Older ways of doing D/s and M/s (30) by Tanos | (18 Apr 12, 10:02 PM by Belasarius) |
| The BDSM Code thread prompted an O&P question. Are there any older styles of D/s and M/s that you like sound of? (or even miss?) I mean anything from Old Guard, to the modern US Leather scene, to the Gorean subculture. [more...] | ||
| 8 Mar 11 | The Phenomenal Field (14) by SirOpenSource | (17 Apr 12, 5:45 AM by maskedwomyn) |
| Carrying on from a thread by @ Diablos_patience where I raised the above issue I thought it may be of some interest to examine this concept of Carl Rogers and it's apparent opposite grounding to help widen peoples ideas and suggestions on Internal Enslavement. [more...] | ||
| 3 Apr 12 | Release? (2) by mia | (4 Apr 12, 10:02 AM by Belasarius) |
| Inspired by this thread and the following from the O&P Manifesto: [more...] | ||
| 21 Jul 11 | Other People's Owners and Other People's Property (15) by mia | (26 Mar 12, 2:51 PM by HalloweenWhite) |
| How do you feel interacting with other people's owners and other people's property? Do you have a way of recognising their position? Do you treat them all equally? Do you worry you ever step on people's toes? [more...] | ||
| 8 Sep 11 | Protocols (23) by Master_MM | (19 Mar 12, 9:29 PM by slave_nothing) |
| I am interested in developing a protocol that will form the framework for a Ds/Ms relationship. I think that this would be helpful in setting out the basis of that relationship, in terms of rules and behaviours for the sub, and the Dom's responsibilities. For me it would be helpful in clearly defining the relationship and my expectations of the sub. [more...] | ||
| 7 Nov 11 | Consequences (9) by othyim | (9 Mar 12, 11:18 PM by slave_nothing) |
| I recently read a text that made me shiver. To be exact, it was a blog entry by a female, that was given the "task" to actively try to seduce a (vanilla) co-worker. [more...] | ||
| 6 Sep 11 | Equality (17) by mia | (9 Mar 12, 11:09 PM by slave_nothing) |
| From the Manifesto: [more...] | ||
| 12 Jan 12 | Communication and 'Porch Time'? (14) by mia | (8 Mar 12, 1:16 PM by ushaben) |
| This is a two fold question really, which means in reality i'll think of about 7 questions, but anyway, it's all relating to communication within these sorts of relationships. [more...] | ||
| 8 Dec 11 | Next O & P Open in Manchester, Sat 11 Feb 2012 (22) by secretsmile_101 | (12 Feb 12, 8:15 PM by secretsmile_101) |
| I am happy to announce that the venue for the next O&P Open in Manchester has been booked! The event will be held on the afternoon of Saturday 11th February 2012 in the same place as before, Taurus Bar, 1 Canal Street, M1 3HE. [more...] | ||
| 9 Jan 12 | Thoughts on Ownership (To be expanded) by custardpowder | (9 Jan 12, 12:11 AM by custardpowder) |
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| 2 Jan 12 | From the Other Side (3) by mia | (8 Jan 12, 5:24 PM by mia) |
| What would you like or enjoy as the other side of the D/s, M/s role than your usual role? What would you hate? [more...] | ||
| 31 Oct 11 | A New Kind of O&P Event? (9) by secretsmile_101 | (3 Jan 12, 8:30 AM by HiGuysItsMe) |
| For many months now I have been thinking about a way to get an O&P event going for everyone and anyone interested in O&P. I have several reasons for wanting to do so, but I'm not very good at explaining my thoughts so please bear with me! [more...] | ||
| 6 Sep 11 | O&P Chatroom Evening - Tuesdays from 9-12 (10) by mia | (20 Dec 11, 9:09 PM by poutanaki) |
| Feel free to add reminders here, or better still, make some suggestions for topics of conversations. [more...] | ||
| 2 Nov 11 | Changing Wants and Needs (29) by mia | (5 Dec 11, 8:23 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| This is prompted by curiosity and for discussion, rather than a need for advice for anything that is happening in my relationship. I say this because often when posts are made, they can be interpreted as simply asking for help, which is not what is required here (for me anyway!). [more...] | ||
| 2 Sep 11 | Volunteer(s) needed for London O and P (1) by successfu1 | (10 Nov 11, 8:34 PM by Gigantor) |
| As some poeple may recall, I said after the last London O and P event that I was keen to hand it on to someone else to coordinate and as I am now departing from IC shores for a while. I'd like to hand it over now. [more...] | ||
| 7 Nov 11 | Books on behaviour modification (3) by HeelHussy | (7 Nov 11, 9:41 PM by HeelHussy) |
| I am looking for recommendations on books about behaviour modification. I want to learn to develop any possible future sub and myself to try and reinforce any d/s dynamics, set rules, enforce them fairly, and generally create a stable household dynamic. [more...] | ||
