| 30 Jul 10 | But that's not fair... (1) by mia | (30 Jul 10, 1:36 PM by mia) |
Insipred by a recent thread on the main boards, which unfortunately didn't get much useful information i could use to my advantage ( ), i'm reposting the question: [more...]
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| 9 Jul 10 | 'Consensual non consent'... an O&P thing? (20) by Degenerate | (26 Jul 10, 12:48 PM by Degenerate) |
| Hi all. [more...]
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| 31 May 10 | No pain, no gain? (4) by Taintedinnocence | (23 Jul 10, 12:09 PM by Persia_Porsche) |
| I was just wondering the other night. How much of a role does pain have in your relationship? [more...]
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| 6 Jul 10 | submissive Deportment (27) by tempysankajira | (21 Jul 10, 7:15 PM by petit_chat) |
| Im not even really sure how to ask this... [more...]
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| 11 Jul 10 | O&P terms (26) by Malbon | (14 Jul 10, 5:03 PM by Belasarius) |
| I'm very much in favour of redescription, and the O&P manifesto appears to me to be very much a classic instance of it. [more...]
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| 8 Jul 10 | A big tent with some house rules (1) by Tanos | (9 Jul 10, 5:53 PM by Degenerate) |
| Some of the threads have touched on the idea of O&P being a big tent, that can accomodate lots of types of D/s and M/s relationship. [more...]
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| 1 Jul 10 | O&P People (91) by hollythedolly | (8 Jul 10, 10:09 PM by tempysankajira) |
| What does o&p actually mean to you. [more...]
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| 23 Mar 10 | Age differences (42) by Tanos | (8 Jul 10, 10:01 AM by JustBecky) |
| For those of us with relationships involving age differences, do you feel this enhances things or is a problem? For those of you who are single or nearly the same in age, would a significant age difference be a problem for you? [more...]
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| 3 Jul 10 | Thank you (9) by mia | (4 Jul 10, 7:42 PM by totallycoverme) |
| Thanks to everyone who came along today. I really enjoyed chairing it for the first time and hope you all enjoyed yourselves. [more...]
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| 3 Jun 10 | O&P Open, Manchester, Sat 3rd July (21) by Tanos | (3 Jul 10, 6:00 PM by Belasarius) |
| There will be another O&P Open in one month's time, on Saturday 3rd July for people interested in O&P-D/s-M/s relationships in central Manchester. It will have a similar format to the third one in Manchester in May: 1pm start time, 2pm onwards for an informal round-table discussion (with a break at about 3:30pm), and finishing after 5pm. [more...]
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| 10 May 10 | Developing submission: why? (5) by Atrebate | (16 Jun 10, 8:50 PM by LadyKarma) |
| Hi All, [more...]
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| 27 Mar 10 | Feeling owned (9) by sparklygreen | (16 Jun 10, 10:28 AM by Belasarius) |
| I just wondered what the term 'ownership' meant to all you people who are 'owned'. [more...]
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| 4 May 10 | "Realistic" D/s Erotica (34) by TheFalconer | (11 Jun 10, 11:18 AM by othyim) |
| Something that got touched on during discussions at Saturday's O&P Meet is that most D/s erotica (Story of O etc.) presents a view of 24/7 D/s which isn't really inline with the reality as those of us reading this board live it. Which set me to thinking - are there any books/stories/etc. that people consider to give a more realistic portrayal of the lifestyle? [more...]
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| 29 May 10 | Places to stay 3rd July (25) by tempysankajira | (6 Jun 10, 8:35 PM by Taintedinnocence) |
| Hello [more...]
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| 14 May 10 | topping from the bottom or service? (15) by othyim | (2 Jun 10, 10:24 AM by Ama_Sidero) |
| A bit philosophical.
Hope this is the good place to post. [more...]
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| 31 May 10 | An O&P philosopher? (3) by Belasarius | (31 May 10, 4:39 PM by othyim) |
| Had cause to link to an early weblog of mine in another thread this morning. [more...]
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| 8 Nov 09 | The submissive's trust (5) by hollythedolly | (30 May 10, 10:30 PM by esmerelda42) |
| Hi, [more...]
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| 11 Apr 10 | Looking after a sub's passport (4) by Dapper_Dom | (30 May 10, 10:19 PM by esmerelda42) |
| There was a very brief mention of this by one of the people at the O&P Open in London yesterday. [more...]
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| 8 May 10 | PP protocol (10) by Belasarius | (19 May 10, 7:40 PM by candlefire) |
| We have a PP protocol (personal pronoun). She has been striving since New Year's day to remove "I" from her speech and writing (with the proviso that I will permit it in important and difficult conversations). She's done it. [more...]
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| 25 Apr 10 | Dealing with eventualities of life in M/s contest (7) by MadamEmme | (10 May 10, 10:21 PM by candlefire) |
| The pain in the eyes of a slave that looses his Owner is nearly unbearable to me. [more...]
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