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28 Jan 12Hard Playing and Limits (12)(29 Jan 12, 8:52 AM by Ama_Sidero)
I was reading on a thread just now about what might define a hard player and what hard play might be. [more...]
20 Jan 12Trust, Confidence, Assurance (2)(21 Jan 12, 4:18 PM by Ms_Valentine)
Recently several threads and blogs have had at their heart a theme connected to concepts of trust. [more...]
11 Jan 12Too spaced to safeword (36)(13 Jan 12, 12:46 AM by Siglorel)
This subject was brought up on a thread elsewhere but when I read this, it just made me go a bit cold inside. [more...]
1 Jan 12Submission or Ownership  (22)(3 Jan 12, 9:58 PM by Unholy_One)
I am given to worrying away at ideas until they really make sense to me. This is sometimes a bit torturous and convoluted. [more...]
30 Dec 11Pronouncing Domme as Dom-may is just evil! (44)(2 Jan 12, 11:51 AM by Ms_Valentine)
Just something I posted about on FL yesterday. [more...]
31 Dec 11Goodbye and Good riddance to 2011 (4)(31 Dec 11, 10:09 PM by femsup)
I am looking forward to seeing the back of 2011. Mind you, I am not sure 2012 will wave a magic wand and make all things better. [more...]
1 Dec 11Daddy Dom dynamic is similar to my FLR (6)(1 Dec 11, 10:35 PM by Ms_Valentine)
I was reading a Daddy Dom blog and was really amazed by the similarity between it and my female led relationship. [more...]
9 Oct 11Happy Birthday @Paulss (4)(9 Oct 11, 12:40 PM by LadyPandoraCP)
This is a message to my dearest sub @paulss with whom I live and love every day. [more...]
21 Jun 11Buckssub's Funeral (14)(22 Jun 11, 11:37 AM by tanken)
Just sitting here at home in Norfolk, miles from where my dear friend and sub David (Buckssub) is to be cremated. It will be a nice humanist ceremony, cremation and later his ashes will be taken and spread at the grave of his beloved partner who pre-deceased him in 1999. [more...]
6 May 11Bad start and end to today (5)(6 May 11, 11:17 PM by Ms_Valentine)
So, today was always going to be crap. I was out at 7.30am watering my garden and what did I discover. Only that some brain dead pillock in a big lorry had demolished my fence when making a truly poor attempt at reversing in the Homebase service area. Snapped my newly painted fence panel in two and shifted two concrete posts out of the position. I hadn't worried before about the lorries manoeuvring behind my boundary before, now I fully expect to find a lorry pirouetting on my lawn. [more...]
5 Jun 09Poly...only for the honest, mature and decent (19)(4 Mar 10, 7:13 PM by mornington_crescent)
I have always known that poly relationships are not for me. I have a particular kind of love for a sexual partner and that means I cannot love another in the same or even similar way at the same time. I can have an open relationship and have done in the past but never poly. It just ain't for me. [more...]
10 Nov 09October 28th 2009 (16)(11 Nov 09, 7:57 AM by Ms_Valentine)
I spoke to my Mum on the phone about 8 o'clock that morning and we were full of ideas about what we could do when Dad was discharged from hospital. How to look after him and make him comfortable in a bed downstairs.After weeks of up and downs, set backs, fears, the heart bypass operation and the aftermath of it, we were finally to have him home again. 'TLC and home cooking' was what the Doctor's said was needed, just the stuff to stimulate his appetite and cheer him up. Nothing was medically wrong with him. That was what they said. [more...]
13 Oct 09Back Home(13 Oct 09, 11:56 AM by Ms_Valentine)
Well, I am finally back home after a couple of stressful and worrying weeks. [more...]
27 Jul 09Irritable mood (7)(27 Jul 09, 5:08 PM by buckssub)
Rubbish weather, painful foot and p had to cancel his two weeks off at very short notice due to work pressures. The second time this year he has had to cancel his holiday at the last minute. [more...]
11 Jul 09West London Munch (2)(11 Jul 09, 8:34 PM by Ms_Valentine)
Just wanted to say thank you to anyone who was kind enough to make Paul and I feel welcome at, what was for us, a new event last night. [more...]
7 Jul 09Punishment in cold blood. (5)(7 Jul 09, 8:55 PM by FluffySub)
Someone used that phrase on SD a few days ago to describe punishment taking place well after the offence has occurred often accompanied by a kind of ritual or ceremony. [more...]
29 Apr 09Does feeling owned make you be owned? (10)(5 Jul 09, 2:25 PM by femsup)
I just had an interesting thought. [more...]
1 Jul 09Dismissing religion. (94)(2 Jul 09, 1:06 PM by Topman1)
I was just reading the thread on BDSM and the Occult.It reminded me of how when I was a student and in my younger years, I read up and actively sought some spiritual path which would help me understand life, my role I play in mine and the whole of existence. Despite having been through some forms of forced Christianity as a child, I still felt maybe there was something in matters spiritual. I read upon on Buddhism, paganism, Satanism, and some other esoteric philosophies. [more...]
26 Jun 09Slave Contracts...the good, the bad and the ugly. (3)(1 Jul 09, 8:20 PM by femsup)
I was just reading something on SD which made me think. [more...]
3 Jun 09Perfect people judge others. (16)(4 Jun 09, 8:25 AM by wonderer)
Mmmmm...to read the opinions of some people on this site they must be saints, never actually had any life experiences at all or deluding themselves. [more...]

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