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| 17 Sep 03 | A rose by any other name | (17 Sep 03, 11:02 PM by Matou) |
| NotVelvet raised some interesting questions in his weblog and stirred me from other things enough to throw in a few penn'orth of my own. [more...] | ||
| 14 Aug 03 | Punishment – the flip side | (14 Aug 03, 9:26 PM by Matou) |
| Some of you who have read cerrynn's weblog entitled 'Punishment' may have come away with feelings of puzzlement or perhaps even distaste. An obviously intelligent, articulate woman who subjects herself to humiliating discipline from her partner? Surely this can't be right? [more...] | ||
| 12 Jul 03 | Overdue Weblog | (12 Jul 03, 2:04 PM by Matou) |
| It's been quite a while since I wrote a weblog and this particular one I have been wanting to write for two weeks now – time and circumstances have conspired to prevent it because I wanted to do it proper justice but finally it is here. Be warned that this will be a bit long. [more...] | ||
| 26 Apr 03 | Stunned! | (26 Apr 03, 12:48 AM by Matou) |
| That's me. Stunned. And flattered. Most of all honoured by the kind, thoughtful and generally damn fine people who sent memos to me. [more...] | ||
| 25 Apr 03 | Illusions | (25 Apr 03, 7:47 PM by Matou) |
| Life's a funny thing, isn't it? [more...] | ||
| 25 Apr 03 | To Laires and greenmile - re: Sadness | (25 Apr 03, 12:17 AM by Matou) |
| Well said, Laires. I agree 100% [more...] | ||
| 23 Apr 03 | Communication | (23 Apr 03, 12:13 AM by Matou) |
| The polyamory topic has produced some very interesting and perceptive weblogs. In particular, Teine's weblog pointed out very eloquently the importance of open and honest communication in such a relationship. [more...] | ||
| 15 Apr 03 | On achievements and opportunism… | (15 Apr 03, 1:30 AM by Matou) |
| I haven't written recently though I am pleased to say that it is because I have been involved with other projects with my lovely cerrynn. Events this weekend kicked me out of my sloth. [more...] | ||
| 3 Mar 03 | Turning points ... | (3 Mar 03, 4:25 AM by Matou) |
| There have been some wonderful weblogs recently, some funny, some sad, some entertaining and some moving. [more...] | ||
| 21 Feb 03 | The BBB | (21 Feb 03, 3:28 AM by Matou) |
| I have wanted to write a weblog ever since returning from the BBB but have been hampered by a total blank as to how to write it, how to express the feelings I had. [more...] | ||
| 7 Feb 03 | To Hisgirl | (7 Feb 03, 12:24 PM by Matou) |
| With respect, Hisgirl, aren't you "bitching" and being "judgemental" yourself in writing the weblog that you have? [more...] | ||
| 5 Feb 03 | Beginnings... | (5 Feb 03, 1:35 AM by Matou) |
| For various, very good reasons, some of the weblogs have been rather downbeat recently and I felt that I wanted to write something a little the other way. [more...] | ||
| 2 Feb 03 | Re: "is cliche inevitable" & ramirez's weblog | (2 Feb 03, 10:20 PM by Matou) |
| Interesting response, Laire. I hear what you say and you are quite right. Basically, if a story pushes your buttons then it is largely irrelevant whether it is a literary classic or not... [more...] | ||
| 30 Jan 03 | Out of the mouths of babes... (Humour category) | (30 Jan 03, 7:20 PM by Matou) |
| Imagine the situation: last Sunday afternoon and my three children are at Matou Mansions for their weekly visit. My eleven-year-old asks: "Daddy, can you help me with my school project?" [more...] | ||
| 30 Jan 03 | What would be needed to change bad porn into good porn. | (30 Jan 03, 4:21 AM by Matou) |
| Laires' question made me ponder about this - so I made a list of things that *I* like to see in a good piece of erotica. [more...] | ||
| 29 Jan 03 | An introduction, subbeater and bad porn. | (29 Jan 03, 1:25 AM by Matou) |
| Some on this list already know me from munches, parties and the BBB (Hiya!) but for those who don't, I am a 50 year old male Dominant and fortunate enough to have cerryn1 as my submissive. [more...] | ||