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| 20 Jan 05 | More Controversy? (16) | (21 Jan 05, 1:07 AM by corriander_THM) |
| I have been reading and hearing a lot about campaigns to make BDSM and Ds more acceptable to society. SM pride, Revise F65 and others. [more...] | ||
| 17 Jan 05 | Insurance | (17 Jan 05, 5:27 PM by Grimly) |
| Yet another example of “nilla” intolerance!! [more...] | ||
| 14 Jan 05 | Thinking subs a Doms view | (14 Jan 05, 1:25 PM by Grimly) |
| This might be a bit controversial be warned!!! [more...] | ||
| 13 Jan 05 | Rules and toilet seats | (13 Jan 05, 12:17 PM by Grimly) |
I stayed with Madam Dragon for 10 days over the xmas
holidays. And was told on no uncertain terms that the
rule was that the toilet seat stays down!!!!! [more...]
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| 10 Jan 05 | censorship, free speach? | (10 Jan 05, 2:44 PM by Grimly) |
| Is this censorship? [more...] | ||
| 9 Jan 05 | Thaughts on a sunday afternoon | (9 Jan 05, 4:52 PM by Grimly) |
| Someone I have known and respected for many years
called me out of the blue yesterday. [more...]
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| 6 Jan 05 | Home and freezing (rant) | (6 Jan 05, 4:51 PM by Grimly) |
| Why o why do I live in the north east of bloody Scotland? What have I done to deserve this? [more...] | ||
| 31 Dec 04 | The long and winding road | (31 Dec 04, 1:08 PM by Grimly) |
| Well that's what the year has seemed to be at times. [more...] | ||
| 3 Dec 04 | Judgment | (3 Dec 04, 3:55 PM by Grimly) |
| You would think by now that we would have learned not to judge our friends by our own standards. [more...] | ||
| 16 Nov 04 | Is there anybody out there..... | (16 Nov 04, 10:20 AM by Grimly) |
| That wants more than just tied and spanked and fucked? What happened to all the imaginative subs that were looking to expand their limits and experience? Where have all the adventurous people gone? Whatever happened to good manners? Now I can accept that most people will disregard badly spelt one line emails, but when an email that is sent that gives detailed information or is sent in response to a question, is it asking too much to expect a reply? Even thanks but no thanks would be nice! Why do people make arrangements and then break them at the last minute? Guess I'm just fed up with [more...] | ||
| 26 Oct 04 | Dear John | (26 Oct 04, 5:36 PM by Grimly) |
| Thank you for all the joy and fun you gave me. Thank you for giving me music and bands I might never have heard. Thank you for your dry humour and wry outlook on life that was so in tune with mine. Thank you for being a part of my life evan though we never met. Rest in peace. [more...] | ||
| 10 Aug 04 | For Shadowrose | (10 Aug 04, 2:03 PM by Grimly) |
| Don't be too hard on yourself. We all, to some extent or another measure our life against those we know and meet or measure theirs against ours. Sometimes its conscious thought and reflection, sometimes its snap judgments, sometimes we don't know we are doing it. Its just human nature. [more...] | ||
| 22 Jul 04 | For Folkman | (22 Jul 04, 5:58 PM by Grimly) |
| Well done!! however not much skill in it. Now running
over bunnies on a country road in the dark is more of
a challange. Sometimes you have to swerve quite hard
to get the wheels to run over them.
Cheers
Grimly | ||
| 29 Jan 04 | Doms Creed!! what a load of bollocks | (29 Jan 04, 12:44 PM by Grimly) |
Well said cathyy! Why o why do we analyze this BDSM /
Ds thing we do is it guilt? Are we trying to justify
what we do? Do we want to appear normal in the eyes of
the world by trying to show we are caring sharing
people? The only rules that apply are the ones we
agree with our partners and work for both parties.
Everyone is different, what works for one may not work
for another. You can't standardize what is, when all
said and done, a sexual kink.  [more...]
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| 25 Jan 04 | Reading | (25 Jan 04, 10:26 AM by Grimly) |
| I love reading!! Its one of the simple pleasures in life (see last blog) At the moment I am reading Stark by Ben Elton. Regular reading material includs Private Eye, the Gaurdian (the only paper that makes me laugh) Classic Car and the Koran [more...] | ||
| 22 Jan 04 | Something from the heart | (22 Jan 04, 12:34 PM by Grimly) |
| Its been a while since I felt the need to write a proper blog and post it. Since the new year I have been doing a bit of meditation and looking back at the past, not just the last year but the whole of my Ds experience and how it has shaped the person I am. I would like to share my insight and invite comment should it move anyone to do so. [more...] | ||
| 18 Jan 04 | For FolkMan | (18 Jan 04, 3:53 PM by Grimly) |
| Try wire brush and Detol | ||
| 8 Nov 03 | For goodghirl | (8 Nov 03, 4:30 PM by Grimly) |
| If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs, [more...] | ||
| 26 Aug 03 | More Dragon Taming | (26 Aug 03, 7:47 PM by Grimly) |
I met up with my partner in crime "MD" again this
weekend but with a diference!! We stayed with my mum
and dad in Glasgow. It was nice to show her around my
home town( though I dont live there) and take her to
meet my friends. This is the first nilla weekend we
have had together, well mostly nilla given the
chance I just have to perve I am always amazed just
how compatable we are and how much we have in common. [more...]
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| 18 Aug 03 | Still here | (18 Aug 03, 8:22 PM by Grimly) |
| Hi all! Well had yet another busy weekend. More travel
seems like I am hardly at home these days. I took
amah to her first club, “Nightshade” in Edinburgh, her
thoughts on the night can be read on her blog so I
wont comment on how she felt about it. For me it was a
bit strange and I have been reflecting and processing
my feelings. I don't like clubs that much I don't like
public play I find it too limiting I'm not a tie and
spank kind of Dom. I'm not knocking those that do,
and speaking to a lot of people I know that is the
only place they can get to play. For me the value of
clubs [more...]
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