IC :
BDSM Dictionary : Sexfight: history
A,
B,
C,
D,
E,
F,
G,
H,
I,
J,
K,
L,
M,
N,
O,
P,
Q,
R,
S,
T,
U,
V,
W,
X,
Y,
Z
This entry is part of the BDSM Dictionary hosted
by Informed Consent.
Sexfight
A sexfight is a voluntary erotic physical competition involving
at least one woman and leading to one or more
orgasms. There are several variations, but the
most common version involves forcing the opponent to orgasm against
their will. In real life sexfights are quite rare. They are far more
common in erotic short stories available primarily on the Internet. As
with much fetish material, sexfight material has an extremely limited
audience—either the reader or viewer loves it or isn't interested.
When the opponents are both male, it is usually called a
cockfight.
A sexfight differs from a catfight, which
involves scratching, slapping, perhaps arm twisting, tit-squeezing,
hair-pulling, punching and even biting but does not normally involve
trying to cause force an orgasm.Variations
These are the common variations found either in stories or in videos:
- Erotic Wrestling
This is one of the most common sexfight forms. Two women wrestle naked,
or in bikinis, or in bras and panties, or in bras and pantyhose. Often
they wear stockings and garterbelts. The holds generally involve
"wrestling around" rather than either formal amateur or pro wrestling
techinques.
- Loser Cums First
Whoever cums first loses. A problem with this is that for commercial
videos it results in women wrestling around for 90 minutes with one
orgasm, and that doesn't sell well. For stories it involves loads of
build-up that gets boring.
- Two Out of Three
AvidMike at Chickfight.com started
this. His original videos were "loser cums first". Of course, a
commercial video in his price range needs to be at least an hour, so if
one opponent cums after 20 minutes they have to continue to have a
saleable product.
- Most Orgasms in an Hour
This started with Sasha vs. Monique from Chickfight. The video started
as "best two out of three". However, the two girls were lesbians and
lovers in real life and, unlike previous videos, they did not try to
defend against stimulation. The result was three forced orgasms in less
than ten minutes! Sasha is extremely aggressive and has had more than 10
orgasms in each of her videos, although she only lost one sexfight, to
Dakota.
- Trib-only
Some women prefer tribadism because it can be
very erotic and stimulating, so they limit the fight to tribadism. An
example was Veronika vs. Alexis at Chickfight.com. Alexis deliberately
chose tribadism because in her previous sexfight, where she won 2-0,
tribadism was the main thing that turned her on.
- No Defense
In early Chickfight videos, the women often fought to prevent their
opponent from stimulating them. Nakita Cross had several fights that
ended with a single orgasm. Because sexfight fans are more interested in
the "sex" than the "fight", such videos don't sell well. Newer
Chickfight videos often involve competitors just seeing how can hold out
longer with direct clit-to-clit stimulation.
- Go At It Mechanically
This is a common complaint about many videos from Danube Womens
Wrestling, a major European producer of unscripted sexfight videos. (See
TribGirls) Often the two women simply get into a scissors-trib position
and just mechanically rub each other until one of them cums.
- Battle of Wills
In this variation the women engage in mutual stimulation until either
one breaks off or one cums. This usually involves trib, 69, mutual
deep-fingering, or rubbing each other's clits.
- Victory Orgasm
The women agree that the loser will eat the winner's pussy until the
winner cums. Usually, the loser lies on her back and the winner sits on
her face as a symbol of conquest.
- Humiliation
This is common in stories and occasionally appears in scripted videos.
The idea is that two women sexfight either over a man or lesbian lover
or for dominance.
In stories:
- The winner often humiliates the loser by kicking her out naked or
in torn clothes.
- The winner humiliates the loser by having sex with her man or her
lesbian lover while the loser watches.
- The winner humiliates the loser by requiring the loser to have
sex with the winner's man or lesbian lover.
- The winner and her man or lesbian loever share the loser sexually.
- The winner forces the loser to a huge orgasm with a dildo or some
other means, generally while a crowd is watching.
- The winner forces the loser to give her a victory orgasm
- Force Orgasm or Control During Orgasm:
In this variation a "point" can be scored in several ways:
# Force the opponent to orgasm against her will
# Force your own orgasm while preventing the opponent from preventing
it. For instance, a woman gets her opponent in a "school-girl" pin and
then rubs her own clit until she cums all over her opponent's face.
# Force the opponent to bring her to orgasm. For instance, hold the
opponent in a school-girl pin and force her to eat your pussy until you cum.
- If anyone tries these in real life it is extremely important to
agree on the rules in advance in detail. There have been reports of
real-life sexfights where each woman claimed she won and it led to real
a fight - the woman on the bottom said, "I made you cum. I won." The
woman on top said, "I got myself off while controlling you. "I" won.
- Celebrities:
A number of fictitious stories involve sexfights between two well-known
female celebrities, usually actresses or women in the news.
- WWE Female Wrestlers:
There is a site with loads of stories about WWE female wrestlers such as
Trish Stratus. However, the stories are not widely circulated.
Uncommon or non-existent types of fights
- RAPE: A sexfight does not involve rape.
In a rape, one person does not want to be involved and the other person
overcomes the resistance by force, drugs or threats. In a sexfight,
"each" participant is trying to win either by forcing her opponent to
cum or by using her opponent to cum. In a sexfight, when one opponent is
saying, "No!" it is not that she does not want to participate, it is
that her opponent is close to forcing her to orgasm.
- Beat Up and Force Orgasm:
This occurs in some stories but not in videos. The scenario is that the
two women engage in a fistfight, a catfight or a boxing match, one
literally beats up the other and then she brings her to orgasm against
her will. In these stories, the storyline is not that the two agree to
battle and the winner will be permitted to get the loser off; it is that
the winner brutalizes the loser. It is essentially a rape or forcible
sodomy.
- Overpower and Force Orgasm:
This is common in stories but not in real life. Women usually want an
opponent of roughly equal size and weight. Women involved in a sexfight
start sweating pretty quickly, which makes their bodies slippery. People
familiar with this technique have said that if a woman slick from sweat
is really trying to resist her opponent, e.g., by pushing away, it is
almost impossible to overpower the woman, hold her helpless and
stimulate her enough to make her orgasm. (Regarding the difference
between "overpower" and "beat up", a wrestler who pins her opponent is
not beating her up.)
- Unconsciousness:
This is not particularly rare in stories but unheard of in videos due to
the possibility of severe injury or even death. Basically, the idea is
that one opponent renders the other unconscious with a smother hold,
choking, etc.
- Oil, Jello, Mud, Spaghetti, etc.
These are quite rare. Women wrestling quickly start sweating, so oil
does not substantially increase slipperiness. Oil or mud make it almost
impossible to hold the woman long enough to make her orgasm. In
addition, oil makes any medium or long hair look ratty, not sexy. People
interested in watching sexfights generally want to see the forced
orgasms, not women covered in mud.
- Male versus Female:
Although these are available they are quite rare and highly scripted and
they involve severely mismatched opponents, such as a 180-pound 6
foot-tall woman bodybuilder and experienced wrestler versus a 5 foot 4
inch 110-pound man with no wrestling experience.
- Sexfight-Cockfight Combo
A few stories with this contain this theme but no videos because
essentially a sexfight is lesbian porn, a cockfight is gay male porn and
they appeal to different audiences.
- Handicap Match:
A handicap match is a two-on-one match. In pro wrestling, this usually
involves a really big and well-known wrestler fighting two small
wrestlers who are newcomers and the big wrestler defeats both wrestlers.
I have suggested to AvidMike having a woman who is pretty good at
holding off her orgasms fight two women who have difficulty resisting
orgasm, taking them on one at a time. An alternative would be the the
one woman can wear a bra, panties and stockings and the two women have
to fight nude, which would make stimulation more effective against them.
Realistically, it is quite unlikely either of those will happen.
- Tag Team:
In tag-team wrestling a wrestler can tag out with a partner. In a
sexfight, this would be done to avoid an orgasm. The video would be one
long wrestling match probably with a single orgasm.
- Round Robin:
I have suggested a variation to AvidMike with three girls, two at a
time, where a woman switches out "after" she cums. The benefit of this
would be that the woman who "didn't" cum would be somewhat tired and
probably quite turned on and now she would have to face a rested
opponent who is probably less excited because she has been watching but
was not in physical contact with an opponent.
- Battle Royale:
In a Battle Royale, "anybody is game". If, for example, there were eight
participants, they would randomly pair off and when a woman cums she
would be eliminated. Ganging up would be allowed, etc. There have been a
few Battle Royale stories but they are rare and videos are virtually
non-existent.
- Bondage
There are some highly scripted videos where the winner ties up the loser
and usually pretends to spank her, etc. Almost all of these are very
poorly acted, with the sex completely faked. Also, people interested in
sexfights generally are not interested in bondage and vice versa. Since
these are both niche markets, it is even harder to find a customer base
interested in both.
- Toys
There are some scripted videos where the opponents use toys at some
point. Usually, these will have three segments, one with toys, one a
sexfight and a third segment. In general people interested in sexfights
are not interested in toys.
- Golden Showers, etc.
Again, both these and sexfighting are niche markets, with essentially no
overlap. Many of Aussie Greg's stories contain a bit of such content but
he is almost unique in this.
Typical story lines
- A man cheats on his wife or girlfriend and she decides to show
the other woman "who is the better woman" or "whose sex is better", in
the sense of whose sexual organs are better.
- "The other woman" decides to win her "man" from his wife or
girlfriend by defeating her in a sexfight.
- Two women each want to be "the" leader of a group of women (e.g.,
cheerleaders), and one challenges the other to a sexfight.
- A corporation has only female executives. They settle disputes
among themselves by sexfighting.
Less common story lines
- Two sisters get in an argument, start fighting and it turns sexual.
- Two female friends decide to experiement with kissing, etc., and
it goes further.
- Two women are titfighting or catfighting and one starts grinding
against the other either because the one grinding is losing and she is
seeking a distraction or because the one grinding is winning and wants
to humiliate her opponent.
Well-known sexfight story authors
- Aussie Greg
Stories involve Vietnamese plus other Asian women and generally also
involve urination or similar activities and/or severe physical violence.
- Eagle
- Giannis (Referred to as "Dr. Trib" for his extensive knowledge of
tribadism techniques.)
- H.G. Hunt (Novels can get extremely wordy with lots of "filler".)
- Morton
- Rino(No longer writes)
Well-known sexfight stories
- Avon Calling (Parts
1,
2,
3)
- Canami Island
-
Competing
for a Job
- Donna versus Jessica (Donna Rice and Jessica Hahn)
- Dreams and Awakening
- Friday Night Fights
- Kim
and TuThoa by AussieGreg
- Hunter's Moon
- Interview with
a Sexfighter
- Pelvis War
- Sexfight at the O.K. Saloon (Part
1,
2,
[ 3])
- Sexfight at the Pleasuredome (Part
1,
2)
- Sexfight Desperado
-
The
Club: First Contact
-
The
Club: Karen vs. Tracy
- The Club: Sarah and Anne Outside the Club (Parts 1, 2, 3, 4, 5,
6)
- Witchfire (Parts 1, 2, 3,
4)
- Zhang
Wu by Aussie Greg
== <font color="#88CCFF">External links</font> ==
Stories
Videos
Other
(This entry in the BDSM Dictionary incorporates text from the
Sexfight
article in Wipipedia.)
This entry is published under the terms of the
GFDL. People with profiles on
Informed Consent can improve
this entry: see the BDSM Dictionary
help page for details.