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RACK vs SSC
I am sure that most everyone reading this knows what S.S.C. stands
for......Safe, Sane and Consensual. It's catchy, easy
to remember, and it has been a worthwhile marketing slogan for the
BDSM lifestyle no matter
what your level of involvement. Over time, though, it has become less
useful to the people actually engaging in BDSM activities, but perhaps
even more useful in making us appear more "normal" to the outside world.
What is "normal" by the way?
Let's break down the acronyms and see which
bests serves the people who actually engage in BDSM activities, then you
decide which works best for you.
- Safe: Free from harm. All necessary precautions that can be
taken for a particular activity have been. Sounds good. Now define safe
for yourself. So far so good. Define safe for everyone else that engages
in BDSM. There in lies the catch with Safe, its impossible to come up
with an even close, satisfactory universal definition that covers anyone
other than you. What one person considers safe another may think is not
only unsafe as it applies to them, but damn close to insane as well.
Single tails, cuttings,
needle play and
brandings are just a few of the activities that
some of us engage in, that many others find beyond their limits and thus
unsafe for themselves. Safe, on the other hand, is one of the reasons
that SSC is such a wonderful marketing tool for some of the best
political activist groups that we have, and thank goodness for them,
such as the NCSF (National Coalition of Sexual Freedom) who is working
very hard to get and keep the government out of your bedroom. "Safe" is
a comforting word to those that they are working with to get laws
changed and passed.
- Sane: This is another tough one to define. Sane to most of
us means that we have clear mental facilities at the time that we are
engaging in any BDSM activity, that we are neither high, drunk or
unbalanced mentally in any way. Sounds good. Sane is rarely applied to
any activity, so like Safe, Sane is left to the individual. What you
consider to be a sane activity I may think is completely crazy. Sane is
another comfort word that's wonderful in selling what it is that we do.
The media often portrays anyone into S&M as being a
deranged serial killer at worst, and usually criminal to some lesser
degree at best, so it's nice to be able to convey the fact that the
majority of the people who engage in BDSM, including S&M, are
level-headed sane people who just like to spice up their sex lives with the
additions of whips and chains.
- Consensual: This is the one that we all seem to agree on.
If the person you are playing with has not fully
consented to whatever it is that is taking place, it's wrong, it's
assault and its abusive. Consent in what we do is the very fine line
that divides us from criminals and abusers. Informed consent that is
given while NOT under duress can be applied to those that engage in BDSM
play and able to be understood by those that do not. It seems to be the
most honest of the three of SSC.
Ok, let's examine R.A.C.K., which has not been around all that long, and
is not yet widely known by those who engage in BDSM activities.
Risk Aware Consensual Kink.
- Risk: What are some of the things that can go wrong, even
with the best of planning and at the hands of the most experienced
player. Risk does not imply Safe; it implies that there can be dangers
that have to be weighed before engaging in any activity. Risk would be a
much harder sell than Safe to the vanilla world. It somewhat implies
that what we do is in fact dangerous. Isn't most if not all of what we
do dangerous to some degree? I think so.
- Aware: Now that you know what the risks are for a given
BDSM play activity do you accept those risks and are you aware of what
the possibilities are if something should go wrong and they should
befall you? Acceptance means that yes, you are aware of the risk
involved and that you knowingly and willingly accept those risks. There
is no debate about whether or not it's Sane. Aware means that you,
after weighing the risks to the enjoyment and benefit of the activity,
to YOU that it is sane and that you can make an informed decision. It
reinforces the fact that what we do is in fact up to the individuals
participating. It's honest.
- Consensual: Same as above. The two (or more) people
involved in any BDSM play activity are informed
consenting ADULTS and that consent has not been obtained
under
duress (with a gun to someone's head for example).
- Kink: This implies that what we do is somewhat outside the
mainstream. Kink is an umbrella term and one that is
good, in that it covers everyone. What I consider to be kinky you might
consider to be boring and mundane, but it covers us both. There are some
kinks that do squick me, namely sex in the dark in the missionary
position. That's kinky as hell to me, but those that enjoy their sex
that way very well may consider the fact that my
slave and I enjoy things such as
spanking, paddling,
single tails, caning,
electrical play (and not
vibrators), enema's,
straps, knife play etc
etc to be kinky, but we are both covered.
So which one is more suited to what it is that we do,
SSC or RACK? I personally think
that RACK is a lot more honest and a lot less ambiguous than SSC for the
purpose of educating the people who actually engage in BDSM play
activities. I think that RACK makes you much more aware of what needs to
be covered before engaging in ANY activity with anyone. I also
think that we as a community still have a great need for SSC -- the theory
behind it was very noble when it came about in the mid 1980's and that
theory is still noble today. We as a community need something that is
short and catchy and portrays us in a good light. A popular beer
commercial advertises its product as "great taste, less filling" and for
the people it's trying to reach this is a great slogan. It does not
advertise with "drink 6 of these in 15 minutes, get behind the wheel of
a car and you may kill yourself or someone else". That's the reality of
it though, isn't it? Beyond just selling ourselves in a positive fashion
to the rest of the world, I think we also owe it ourselves AND
the rest
of the world to educate one another and ourselves in the best most
honest fashion that we can. As far as I am concerned, SSC makes the sale
possible and nice, RACK is the warranty that keeps it from ever being
portrayed as lemon. Think about it.
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