Relationships based on a D/s or M/s dynamic http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/ukds/ The IC RSS Gadget webmaster@informedconsent.co.uk (Admin) 360 Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:06:28 GMT Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:06:28 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/325014/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/325014/ Thu, 09 Feb 2012 20:06:28 GMT and why "Internet dating" will never been the panacea we think it is.... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324953/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324953/ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 19:24:29 GMT If you are in a D/s type of relationship should one or the other of you be 'grateful' for it? As a sub do you feel you are unworthy of the attention of your dominant? Doms do you feel grateful that your sub serves you? Does the idea of being grateful have any part in your relationship and do you think it should?... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324930/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324930/ Wed, 08 Feb 2012 11:59:06 GMT What happens when we get old. We become armchair bdsmers posting to IC :) http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324865/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324865/ Tue, 07 Feb 2012 13:26:34 GMT I got to thinking that many D/s relationships seem to rely fairly heavily on the physical BDSM dimension for fulfilment and happiness, and all that stuff. ... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324855/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324855/ Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:25:44 GMT Hello, I'm new on IC and would appreciate any advice. I have recently met a good friend who has helped me discover a lot about my sexuality, even though I already knew that I wanted to live a submissive lifestyle, it has always been hidden in the depths of my personality due to a very violent and abusive ex relationship. A lot of emotions and feelings have come to the fore over the past 2 weeks as I've discovered more about myself and explored and discovered more about D/s relationships, who I am and what I want etc. I am still running on adrenaline, and have not slept properly in a fortnight. I am walking around in a daze and keep having very vivid dreams and imagery running through my mind, I have not been coping well at work as I'm constantly battling with my emotions and thoughts, and as a result, I'm not eating well either. I was just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience when they discovered the D/s side of life, and how you may have dealt with it? Any help would be very gladly received! http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324798/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324798/ Mon, 06 Feb 2012 15:01:06 GMT What does it mean?Is it real or play in a D/s relationship? http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324732/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324732/ Sun, 05 Feb 2012 17:04:56 GMT Being new to all this, I sometimes get the terminology wrong. So I thought I'd check -... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324723/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324723/ Sun, 05 Feb 2012 14:30:48 GMT W/we are having a very difficult time to find a real sub to join U/us. it seems either there are plenty of fakes around or timewasters "curious" but not really committed to the lifestyle. W/we would appreciate any sort of help. W/we know W/we have some specific criteria but still W/we do think there are many people trying to mess around. Anyhow W/we would be happy to hear any suggestions and tips Regards Dom_Domme_S http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324722/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324722/ Sun, 05 Feb 2012 14:02:30 GMT Hi Everybody,... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324669/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324669/ Sat, 04 Feb 2012 19:58:45 GMT http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324453/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324453/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 22:46:07 GMT W/we have recently started Argentine Tango classes. This is a departure for us since, although we both dance and teach dancing, tango is entirely dictated by the leader. The leader has the control to decide where to decorate the dance with pauses and speeding up, so it is ultimately up to the leader to decide on which beat the steps are taken. ... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324385/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324385/ Mon, 30 Jan 2012 23:31:33 GMT Last night a former slave called me "Master" for the first time since we stopped playing (over a year ago now). It left me feeling quite strange - a mix of pride and awkwardness. I know it's probably at least partly because of how long it's been, but it got me thinking about terms of address.... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324283/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324283/ Sun, 29 Jan 2012 17:13:10 GMT Im interested in adding a 2nd sub/bottom, Bi fem to our relationship, and would be interested to hear from anyone, be it the Dom the primary sub or the second.. about how its has worked out for you, any advice suggestions about making it work would be welcomed... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324165/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324165/ Fri, 27 Jan 2012 20:24:25 GMT Hiya... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324156/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324156/ Fri, 27 Jan 2012 19:23:39 GMT This has been a week of reflection, and following this excellent blog ... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324073/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324073/ Thu, 26 Jan 2012 11:32:39 GMT Hi everyone,... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324001/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/324001/ Wed, 25 Jan 2012 00:27:39 GMT Your starter for 10 folks:... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/323955/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/323955/ Tue, 24 Jan 2012 10:45:16 GMT Don't you just get fed up with people who can't let old relationships go and try to destroy those people they were in old relationships with?... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/323937/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/323937/ Mon, 23 Jan 2012 23:55:32 GMT Being very new to all this, I was wondering if someone could make some suggestions here -... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/323927/ http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/323927/ Mon, 23 Jan 2012 21:24:43 GMT Hello, I thought I'd write this here as there is no one else I know that is kinky and would understand. I would love to find a Dom, have had no luck on here yet, and am feeling kind of despondent. How did you go about meeting your partners? Was it off IC, or in real life? Sorry to waffle, just single and lonely and missing kink in my life :( x