Is it time to raise the bar? (96)

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30 Jun 08, 9:56 AM
Mistress_Keene
UK, 6 yrs
£ Ditto what MistressLadyAnna has said.
"One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other" Emma ( Ch 13) Jane Austen 1816

30 Jun 08, 9:59 AM
MistressLadyAnna
UK(BD), 2 yrs
£

Mistress_Keene wrote:
Ditto what MistressLadyAnna has said.
Thank you

"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness
http://www.ladyanna.co.uk/

30 Jun 08, 11:49 AM
The_Inner_Whore
UK(E), 3 yrs
d_s_electable wrote:
my intention was and is not bashing or being disrespectful at all.
I'm sure we all read that the first time. No need to bang on your unrequested explanations, I for one, am going to start doubting your excelent, educational intentions* if you say it just one more time.
* Not to mention your impressive IQ
Cultivate your inner whore
Edited 30 Jun 08, 11:54 AM by The_Inner_Whore

30 Jun 08, 2:27 PM
Jahc01
UK, 7 mths
£

Mistress_Susannah wrote:
What happens within the vacuum of a session is often far more intense than my lifestyle play. Why? Well as Jahc has said, the two parties are completely focussed in on that point in time. I'm not thinking of reminding my boyfriend half way through that he needs to feed that cat or video Question Time.
Well there's a bit more to it than that, me thinks. There is all the anticipation, mental preparation. There is a very high level of trust, implicit in the fact that they have delivered themselves to the dungeon door, no safecalls, and in the dungeon no-one can hear you scream!
Then there is an implicit protocol from the off, a formal address, a knowing of who is what and that is the way it will be. Just the very fact of being where you are means much in itself, establishes elements of the dynamic automatically.
I think a trickier thing to describe is the way baggage is left at the door too. Because that makes it sound impersonal, and that's not what I mean. I mean that, even if there are troubles and issues in wider life, and we all have those, this is a special time, where we can really be free as ourselves. Perhaps the effect of being in a dungeon environment rather than a bedroom or living room too - I remember the first time I entered a PD dungeon, quite some experience, that, even though I was there to teach rope rather than be a client. And there is no point in being self conscious with a pro, just go for it. The whole arrangement peals away inhibitions, like that.
I am sure there are more aspects, but there are many special qualities to professional domination that seem to add up to being able to go further, faster, than in other playtimes. It's really rather great, that.
Edited 30 Jun 08, 2:59 PM by Jahc01

30 Jun 08, 3:33 PM
Mistress_Susannah
UK(SE), 3 yrs
£ Y!
Yes - I did say later on in my post that I was being facetious with the cat thing - but you've described things much better than I could have done. Thanks. xxx
http://www.mistresssusannah.co.uk

30 Jun 08, 4:18 PM
Jahc99
UK, 2 yrs

Kinda explains why it's so damned knackering too!

30 Jun 08, 4:35 PM
MistressLadyAnna
UK(BD), 2 yrs
£

Jahc99 wrote:
Kinda explains why it's so damned knackering too!
Isn't it just! Sometimes after a really intense 2 hour session I go to bed for a kip - er, I mean power nap.

"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness
http://www.ladyanna.co.uk/

30 Jun 08, 5:01 PM
SemiTrainedApe
UK(LA), 14 mths

MistressLadyAnna wrote:
Isn't it just! Sometimes after a really intense 2 hour session I go to bed for a kip - er, I mean power nap.

Don't rub it in, woman!
Not all of us have jobs where you work for 2 hours, get paid a hundred and fifty quid, and get to touch people's bits!
Telling us you have a kip every afternoon is a boast too far!

It's not illegal if the monkey's up for it.

30 Jun 08, 5:06 PM
MistressLadyAnna
UK(BD), 2 yrs
£

SemiTrainedApe wrote:

MistressLadyAnna wrote:
Isn't it just! Sometimes after a really intense 2 hour session I go to bed for a kip - er, I mean power nap.

Don't rub it in, woman!
Not all of us have jobs where you work for 2 hours, get paid a hundred and fifty quid, and get to touch people's bits!
Telling us you have a kip every afternoon is a boast too far!

...and I get flowers, or choccies, or stockings and sometimes I get Champagne to quaff.

"If no sexual offence is being committed it seems very odd indeed that there should be an offence for having an image of something which was not an offence," Lord Wallace of Tankerness
http://www.ladyanna.co.uk/

30 Jun 08, 5:24 PM
SemiTrainedApe
UK(LA), 14 mths

MistressLadyAnna wrote:
...and I get flowers, or choccies, or stockings and sometimes I get Champagne to quaff.

Sometimes at work I get free doughnuts.
Who's the winner, now, eh?

It's not illegal if the monkey's up for it.

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