positive pro domme experiences (58)

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Thu 1 May 08, 10:15 AM
djin_bleu
UK(NW), 22 mths
I have seen a few pro's before, some have been terriby negative and some have been very enriching, it's abit of a gamble when you don't have much to go on and many pro's out there are simply chancers looking for quick cash.
My question people who have seen pro-dommes is when you left after seeing your pro-domme did you feel:
A. Like an Alzeimers victim in a whore house, you forget that you keep getting screwed and are fucked off that you have to keep paying.
B. Amazingly surprised at how turned on you are as you plod off for home, raiding the penny jar to see her asap!

**She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount**
***For your information Psychos do NOT explode when sunlight hits them***

1 May 08, 10:21 AM
lisal
5 yrs
djin_bleu wrote:
positive pro domme experiences
I have seen a few pro's before, some have been terriby negative and some have been very enriching, it's abit of a gamble when you don't have much to go on and many pro's out there are simply chancers looking for quick cash.
My question people who have seen pro-dommes is when you left after seeing your pro-domme did you feel:
A. Like an Alzeimers victim in a whore house, you forget that you keep getting screwed and are fucked off that you have to keep paying.
B. Amazingly surprised at how turned on you are as you plod off for home, raiding the penny jar to see her asap!

Or none of the above maybe?
I have seen many pro dommes over the years = a few brilliant a lot good, a few not so good, one or two terrible and a few I just didn't click with
The answers may also depend on whether or not the subs are seeing the same domme or play the field a bit
For me - being a one mistress subbie now and having been seeing her for some 13-14 years I'd say I feel :-
relaxed, happy, emotional (in a good way), satisfied (!!!) etc. I'll have had a smashing day with a special person and good friend and will be very much looking forward to the next time - which will be already booked

1 May 08, 10:33 AM
djin_bleu
UK(NW), 22 mths

lisal wrote:

djin_bleu wrote:
positive pro domme experiences
I have seen a few pro's before, some have been terriby negative and some have been very enriching, it's abit of a gamble when you don't have much to go on and many pro's out there are simply chancers looking for quick cash.
My question people who have seen pro-dommes is when you left after seeing your pro-domme did you feel:
A. Like an Alzeimers victim in a whore house, you forget that you keep getting screwed and are fucked off that you have to keep paying.
B. Amazingly surprised at how turned on you are as you plod off for home, raiding the penny jar to see her asap!

Or none of the above maybe?
I have seen many pro dommes over the years = a few brilliant a lot good, a few not so good, one or two terrible and a few I just didn't click with
The answers may also depend on whether or not the subs are seeing the same domme or play the field a bit
For me - being a one mistress subbie now and having been seeing her for some 13-14 years I'd say I feel :-
relaxed, happy, emotional (in a good way), satisfied (!!!) etc. I'll have had a smashing day with a special person and good friend and will be very much looking forward to the next time - which will be already booked

I've had the pleasure of a few amazing experiences myself but in truth it was after i myself felt more relaxed within the BDSM/Fetish world as making the transition from fantasist to realist was a nerve racking time!
**She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount**
***For your information Psychos do NOT explode when sunlight hits them***

1 May 08, 10:49 AM
lisal
5 yrs
djin_bleu wrote:

I've had the pleasure of a few amazing experiences myself but in truth it was after i myself felt more relaxed within the BDSM/Fetish world as making the transition from fantasist to realist was a nerve racking time! [/quote]
Totally agree - although my first ever session was pretty good
I met the lady I see now after sessioning around and it was probably the right time to be able to move up through the gears!! She taught me to accept myself as who I am and also encouraged me to try things that, previously, I wouldn't have had the confidence or courage to do. She also proved to me that you can have a relationship (both friendship and BDSM wise) with a pro domme

1 May 08, 11:17 AM
chub_subman
19 mths
I must of been lucky i guess, after my first experiance with a pro domme, who gave me a "taster session" i knew it was for me. Unfortunately when i went back she was no longer around which meant i met an amazing lady who i ended up seeing for 2 and half years. It was some on the most amazing and intense times i have ever had. The down side is i dont think i will ever find "it" again. So i guess it does come down to that personel "click", its there or its not, what is good for some is not for others.

djin_bleu wrote:
positive pro domme experiences
I have seen a few pro's before, some have been terriby negative and some have been very enriching, it's abit of a gamble when you don't have much to go on and many pro's out there are simply chancers looking for quick cash.
My question people who have seen pro-dommes is when you left after seeing your pro-domme did you feel:
A. Like an Alzeimers victim in a whore house, you forget that you keep getting screwed and are fucked off that you have to keep paying.
B. Amazingly surprised at how turned on you are as you plod off for home, raiding the penny jar to see her asap!

1 May 08, 12:22 PM
The_Inner_Whore
UK(E), 3 yrs
djin_bleu wrote:
positive pro domme experiences
I have seen a few pro's before, some have been terriby negative and some have been very enriching, it's abit of a gamble when you don't have much to go on and many pro's out there are simply chancers looking for quick cash.
There is always a lot to go on if only you mae the effort to think with your bigger brain (the one on top of your shoulders). If you haven't yet learned to spot the signs that give the chancers away, perhaps you don't want to learn anyway. It's your cash after all.
Cultivate your inner whore
Edited 1 May 08, 12:23 PM by The_Inner_Whore

1 May 08, 1:42 PM
djin_bleu
UK(NW), 22 mths

Ms_Tytania wrote:

djin_bleu wrote:
positive pro domme experiences
I have seen a few pro's before, some have been terriby negative and some have been very enriching, it's abit of a gamble when you don't have much to go on and many pro's out there are simply chancers looking for quick cash.
There is always a lot to go on if only you mae the effort to think with your bigger brain (the one on top of your shoulders). If you haven't yet learned to spot the signs that give the chancers away, perhaps you don't want to learn anyway. It's your cash after all.
Good point but as we all know Domination for many subs is a sexually stimulated desire and not one that one can think clearly on at times, this is illustrated by the sheer numbers of internet subbies who need a quick fix, to deny that we are compelled to visit a pro simply for an intellectual moment would be quite silly don't you think?
When you are immensely turned on by a so-called internet domme saying how uber powerful she is and that we are all inferior blah blah blah then the smaller brain takes over, lets face it sometimes this smaller brain is more in tune with the level of skanky dommes we deal with. We know that they are using us not for power but for dosh but that taboo in itself can be quite alluring.
**She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount**
***For your information Psychos do NOT explode when sunlight hits them***

1 May 08, 3:30 PM
LadyAlpha
UK, 2 yrs
£

djin_bleu wrote:

Ms_Tytania wrote:

djin_bleu wrote:
positive pro domme experiences
I have seen a few pro's before, some have been terriby negative and some have been very enriching, it's abit of a gamble when you don't have much to go on and many pro's out there are simply chancers looking for quick cash.
There is always a lot to go on if only you mae the effort to think with your bigger brain (the one on top of your shoulders). If you haven't yet learned to spot the signs that give the chancers away, perhaps you don't want to learn anyway. It's your cash after all.
Good point but as we all know Domination for many subs is a sexually stimulated desire and not one that one can think clearly on at times, this is illustrated by the sheer numbers of internet subbies who need a quick fix, to deny that we are compelled to visit a pro simply for an intellectual moment would be quite silly don't you think?
When you are immensely turned on by a so-called internet domme saying how uber powerful she is and that we are all inferior blah blah blah then the smaller brain takes over, lets face it sometimes this smaller brain is more in tune with the level of skanky dommes we deal with. We know that they are using us not for power but for dosh but that taboo in itself can be quite alluring.
And, anyway, for it to really work, you have to 'click' with your Domme, and how can you tell that from their website?
Lx
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1 May 08, 3:37 PM
djin_bleu
UK(NW), 22 mths

MistressAlpha wrote:
And, anyway, for it to really work, you have to 'click' with your Domme, and how can you tell that from their website?
Lx
You would be surprised at how strong the cover of the book can be so to speak, it may not make any real sense but then attraction is a very strange thing.
**She who rides the Demon is afraid to dismount**
***For your information Psychos do NOT explode when sunlight hits them***

1 May 08, 3:45 PM
lisal
5 yrs
djin_bleu wrote:
to deny that we are compelled to visit a pro simply for an intellectual moment would be quite silly don't you think?

Okay - it's been a long day, I've had a beer or two but I don't get this
Djin bleu - help a poor old subbie out here and explain this sentence to me - please!!!

1 May 08, 7:11 PM
The_Inner_Whore
UK(E), 3 yrs The problem is that subs often have a bad experience with a chancer (good term, btw) because they love the Russian Rulette quality of throwing all caution and good sense to the wind and jsut going for it, see what happens. As I said earlier, it's your money and your decision, so don't come back asking for sympathy (not saying that anyone is).
Not long ago, me and some friends were discussing (=gossiping) about a Domme who is well know for being unsafe and plain dangerous. We all agreed on this: a reputation for brainless, reckless play, and in no way exaggerated, will attract many subs who like to take a walk on the wild side. Oh well, it's their adult and indeed, well informed, choice. And please don't memo m asking for the ladies' name.
Cultivate your inner whore
Edited 1 May 08, 7:13 PM by The_Inner_Whore

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